I'm looking for a more long term relationship if things progress into that. I am definately in the submissive catagory in the relationship aspect, though outsid of it, I tend to me be much more asertive. Iam also on the "new side of the liefestyle, but am sure that this is where I belong and crave to serve a dominant woman and to make her pleasure paramount. To maker her happy, amused and pleased is what I long for. Hoping to find a woman who is looking to be served and pleased in the many ways she may desire. Someone who knows discipline is important as well as caring and love. Ultimately I would love to find the Dom in private, with the "vanilla" look in public (atleast to some degree), though we both know "who wears the pants". A person ho know's what she wants and would enjoy training someone to please her in all ways.