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LORDDRACU
I am a 59 year old DWF, not looking for 24/7, ltr or marriage (never again). I am not a slave, not sure if "sub" fits me either ... I want a man who can be creative, who can hurt good but not go overboard without my permission. I don't want to tell someone what to do, but I won't just submit to anything just because submission is your goal. I am a quadriplegic (confined to a wheelchair). I broke my neck 43 years ago. In many ways the chair has taught me a lot about bondage and about being helpless. But I am strong and have accepted this. I know if I find the right partner I can work around my disabilities and have some long awaited fun. OK, about trust... I had a short RT encounter about two years ago. The guy was a medical professional and pretty intense (kinda creepy too). I chatted with him for about a month and then we decided to meet. We set a time and place, but instead of following our plans, he showed up 1/2 hour later. It was very awkward. My ex was there ... so this guy left. But, as soon as my ex was gone, the guy walked into my house, whipped up my shirt and went to town. Now, I'm not saying that I regret that encounter - it was fantastic! I was, however, unnerved because he never took the time to discuss hard limits, safe words, etc. I tried discussing those things later, but he wouldn't commit to anything. I was scared to see him again, but have thought about how he made me feel - often. It was good... it was very, very good! I want more with a safe, sane partner. I am looking for someone who can be sweet and caring but still hurt my nipples and breasts. I have some hard limits and a lot of curiosity about stuff I've never experienced.
I am intelligent. I know I am vulnerable. I know need to be safe. But I want this, very much. If you feel you might fit the bill, contact me. Only looking for local, RT experiences. Please don't waste my time if you're just looking to chat to get off or want a quick blow job. No total submission, no live in situation, no slave requests... I want to be led, encouraged and taught - not forced

So, the search is on... PS: I have received so many messages that I can't answer or chat with everyone immediately. I will get back to you when I can. Please understand. Thanks.
10/2/2011 9:48:07 AM

I have had many responses since I joined yesterday, and I want to talk to everyone.  I know I will weed out many who are not for real, not safe and sane, and some who are looking for more than I can physically give.  I'd love to talk, but am a bit overwhelmed... so if I don't get back to you immediately, please hang in there.

 

Thanks!