I thought I would try to answer the most common question I'm asked, " who are you and what are you looking for".
Me: I am a professional in the healthcare admin field with two grown children one attending FSU one to attend UF next year. Which basically means, yes I'm a single mom, and although older and finding their own way, I'm still their mom. :)
Things I enjoy are too numerous to list, they go from leather and bikes to classical music and philosophy...though country is what my radio is tuned into. I am a reader and a studier. I love learning new things, so I'm a question asker. Who, what, why, and how are frequently in my conversations. I seek a conversationalist..yes what they say about the brain and sex, mental before physical...all true. Passion, touching, kissing, laughing, all things I hold dear. I am financially and emotionally secure. Baggage, yes some, but I think I carry it with grace and dignity. I am not a one night stand, a playtoy, a couple of scenes a month type. I tend to lean toward the older age bracket in men (and women), most seem to have a better sense of self. :shrug: Just my own opinon
What I'm looking for: I'm not sure I'm looking for a partner as much as I am just looking what's out there. I have very strong beliefs of how BDSM can fit into my life, which seem to be much different than most I have spoken with. I have a high profile profession which is just does not allow me to post pictures or join public play. :shrug: My match would be well grounded enough in his Dominance that there would be nothing prove. He could see the humor in the lifestyle and not take it so serious. He would be a man of conviction a fighter for the underdog, a protector of those that need it. Secure in who he is and where he's going. And last but not least, one who is just as secure with himself as I am with myself. Someone who is stronger than I, and I do not mean physically. And finally someone I could admire and want to emulate, crave for his respect and crave to give him mine.
For those that have asked over the last several months...there are your answers :)
