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About Nijnij
Note 1 Pictures added, I didnt realize they werent working due to size!
Note 2 Very active here despite last activity. I prefer reading, so dont be afraid to message me.
Updated 782017
Suppose this thing is overdue for an overhaul to reflect the person I am currently, as opposed to the person I wanted to be.
As for what I am right now in reference to vanilla life, Im nearly done with my Bachelors in psychology (handful of classes left) and plan to pursue my Masters after. Im a big guy, funny, passive, and very analytical. I mesh well with most people, ethnicities, and ages but if you challenge my intelligence, I will be quick to let you know youre full of it and why. I enjoy anything from intelligent discussion to video games, and everything in between. Im well cultured and I have an old fashion appreciation for things such as music and movies so age is rarely a factor.
As for what my interest are within Fetlife, Im a D type, and Ive both practiced in real time and educated myself in the seven plus years Ive been in the lifestyle and Im always eager to learn more through resources, people, and interactions. Im looking for a female S-type, whether thats a sub, slave, little, etc and Im looking for long-term only. The qualities I look for is someone whos loyal, honest, mature (within reason if youre a little), and most importantly,not willing to give up easily.
If you come to or engage me, I expect you to be serious about this lifestyle, Im not here for games, and Im not here to convince you of what you want. If you arent over whoever of your exes, if you cant handle monogamy (providing thats our arrangement), arent stable enough for a relationship, andif you arent willing to prove you actually exist by -my- standards, dont message me and dont respond to me if I message you. I will also have expected you to have read this, and Ill likely ask you if you fit what Im looking for.
In person or long distance, I prefer to run a tight ship. I dont allow nonsense or drama. There will be tasks, schedules, and a journal set among other things, so be prepared if you consent to me, pending our dynamic. I expect regular communication, so dont tell me you dont have skype, kik, or a cell phone (for distance). Its 2017, nearly everyone has a phonecomputer thats compatible. That said, Im all for friends, and adding people just to talk, but make that clear prior as your goal. Im also fine with moving at a slower pace,as long as theres progress. Not a match, be safe anyway and enjoy your time here!
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