OLD ABOUT ME: Taken down- 11/10/13
Just as a simple preface, I will not be giving you my outside chats right off the bat. Should we become close and I feel comfortable and trust you THEN I will gladly hand over my outside chats. If you can't handle this, then don't bother messaging me.
Now....
onto the fun stuff :)
Intro.
Much like the Disney character Ariel, I've got gadgets (hobbies) and gizmos (interests) aplenty, but it's never enough I want more.
My interests and hobbies range from BDSM, to anime, to Disney movies, to reading, to writing, to indulging my inner child and watching my favorite childhood movies. And those are just a few of the things I like... :)
I'm really looking for someone I can connect with. As a polyamorous individual, I love loving others, but even more then that I love having a connection with others. I do already have a husband, but I want to clarify that I am looking SEPARATELY from him. We are not looking for a threesome. I, me specifically, am looking for someone to be my friend and -insert various different romantic/BDSM relationships here-
Also, you should know I identify more as a brat than a submissive. I like to fight my submission, I don't like to give in easily. So if you're someone who wants a doormat right off the bat, you're not going to like me ;)
What am I doing with my life?
Right now I'm going to school for my Associates of Art degree. After I finish that I'll most likely work at getting my Bachelors (most likely in Library Science).
What I want in a partner?
I am open to whatever I may find in this world, but I'm NOT really looking for a serious and seriouser relationship. My modus of operandi is usually to become friends with people before ever considering them for sexual/romantic relationships.
I am very attracted to both traditional femininity and traditional masculinity. If you can't tell already I am fairly inexperienced when it comes to dating so for now I am pretty flexible with my preferences. Don't get me wrong though, I DO still have preferences.
For instance, I am not interested in any type of romantic partner older then 30. I am definitely not interested in anyone who is near my own biological parent's age. I'm sorry that's just a major squick of mine.
Also, you would have to not only be okay with the fact that I have a life partner but also you must have respect for my already established relationship. [Here is a link to my Daddy/life partners profile ---> http://www.collarme.com/personals/v/1864071/details.htm]
I do have some pretty intense kinks, so make sure you take a look at that section of my profile to see if we are compatible in that way.
Lastly, I am looking for someone LOCAL. If you live more then 200 miles (preferably living in my city though) away from me, you need not expect anything from me besides /maybe/ an internet friendship. ^-^
My Kinks.
I am very into being roughly controlled and humiliated. If I had to pick two kinks that were my main ones it would be these two. Basically, all other kinks that I have stem from these two. I am very into being called "dirty" names such as bitch, cunt, slut, whore, and any creative combinations thereof. Although, I would not like to be micromanaged constantly I do like this occasionally.
I enjoy bondage in pretty much all forms. However, this really stems back to my kink of being controlled. It's all apart of feeling like my control is being stripped away. The fact that I am vulnerable to the Dominant, that's what makes me all tingly.
I like ageplay. I enjoy feeling uninhibited and free, and ageplay does that for me. When I am in a little "mood" I am very playful, bratty and loving. I like being treated condescendingly, like I really am a child. Being talked down to and having "knowing" pats on the head. However, I also really enjoy the safety and comfort I feel when I am being nurtured in my little state.
I have other kinks, but the last "major one", I guess you could say, is I am a slight masochist or that I have a suffering fetish. I'm not sure which one it is, but I'm leaning more toward it being a suffering fetish. I don't really like the feel of pain that much, but I enjoy suffering for someone else's enjoyment. Knowing that someone else is getting off on my pain gets me off.
Things that will piss me off.
I am actually a girl, so if you message me to make me "prove you're a girl! get on webcam!!11!" I WILL laugh in your face and then block you. I'm not opposed to talking to someone on webcam who I have gotten to KNOW, but I won't cam with a total stranger because they feel fucking entitled.
If you expect me to any way submit to you or expect anything from me, besides polite human discourse, in the first few messages you send me, I will laugh in your face and then block you.
If you talk/ask about my marriage in any way that is disrespectful I will either rage at you or just ignore/block you.
If you fail to act like a decent human being and/or if you have absolutely no common sense I will block you.
If you have poor grammar or if I cannot understand you, I probably won't answer you.
If it's obvious you did not read my profile I will either block you or ignore you.
In conclusion...
if you feel like we could connect, or if you would like to ask me about pretty much anything feel free to message me! I'm pretty much always up for some interesting conversations. Just please remember to always try to be respectful, and polite.
Sincerely,
Niiko
