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I am looking for local or nearby parties only. thank you. Also no longer checking this website, sorry for the inconvenience. Find me under the name lithelily.
I'm a sub girl looking for partial power exchange. I am seeking a Dominant who believes in earning trust and obedience, someone who has respect for subs. If the statement "A submissive and a dominant are both equals, who choose to perform different roles in a relationship or during a scene and may end those roles at any time" does ring true for you, then you should look elsewhere.

I will speak to those who do not live close by but I have a few expectations. First, you must be interested in pursuing something real-time. Secondly, do not ask for cyber or naughty pics. Thirdly, understand that I do not have the means to cover travel expenses. If you approach me looking to meet from far away, you need to be ready to handle them yourself. Finally - my first face to face visit with anyone won't be to move in. I intend to take things slowly.

My hobbies include art, reading, writing, hiking and video games. I enjoy good conversation and love to talk about philosophy, religion, politics, science, and others. My ideal mate is someone who shares some of the interests above, who likes to cuddle and can be experimental (but not 'extreme') in bed. I'm also willing to be in a poly relationship, but only if I am involved with all parties.

Finally, if you did not read this - I will assume you do not have the motivation to develop something real. I write these things for a reason - so you the reader will learn about me and have the means to decide if I am worth taking more time to talk to. If you write, please let me know you took the time to read, and tell me a little about yourself. I'm interested in more than just the kinky you, I am interested in all of you. And I will know, by your message, if you've been paying attention to who I am.