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Why here?
Human's are, by nature, contradictory and, as a result, fascinating. We love to tease and be teased and the only thing worse than being talked about is being ignored. Sub's crave attention and doms do to, though not as much as subs. That's why I am here. A little attention and in return some conversation and perhaps the making of a friendship with interesting folk of a like mind.
On Kink
Kink has always been a kind of infection that has plagued me and it's only in my middle and somewhat more mature years that I have accepted that there is no god to strike me down for having a "perversion." But let me be clear, it is not, and has never been a perversion. If you have a kink and it gives you pleasure and you can share that pleasure with someone else and no one gets harmed along the way then there is nothing wrong and everything right about what it is you do. Harm no one and you will always be safe from the disapproval of the so called “majority.” Exercise of your will in a measured and reflective way will always be ethically good. This approach cuts across not just sexual activity but across every aspect of your life.
On Will
What is it we do? What is it that we bring into being? It is the enactment of our will upon the world. How do we know what that will is? These questions point to the key: know thyself. This means you need to know what your will is and to know and see, and reflect upon what that will imposes and creates in the world. As Crowley said, "do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the law." The key here is "will." What you choose and enact as an outward manifestation of your will is the determinant as to the moral and ethical impact of your actions. In other words, if you choose to harm then your actions will be tainted, perhaps criminally so. But if you choose to go gently, as I do, and suffer the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune, then your will, as I believe mine has, invariably enacts a world (and indeed a world view) which reflects your will.
My kink then, becomes a manifestation of my will which, on one interpretation, could be seen to be that of a dual persona mingling male and female and attempting to keep each element in some sort of balance and at the same time presenting a need for independence of relationships. But no human is an island. Humans need each other no matter how much we may believe in our independent personas. My will, therefore, enacts a world of male and female energy and, being a male, requires female energy to balance me and in turn, balance the world. The upshot of this is that I will always require female energy to compliment and balance my excessive male energy which results in me always being hetro and yet appearing to exhibit feminine tendencies (wearing pantyhose, heels, corsets).
Reactive or Responsive
Truth be told I am not a good submissive. In fact I actually switch from time to time. the switch is never predictable, which is to say it isn't something which I can timetable in on a regular basis. It'll happen because of who I am with, whether she is in need of dominance, whether I have a need to lead or because the weather is turning funny. Mostly though, I am content to be sub. Of course, that's assuming you are content to be dom which, from time to time, you may not.
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