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About NextDoorMan
Seeking a relationship where I am valued as much for the person I am as for the role that I serve.
Life is all about the fun we have along the way. I am not seeking an "owner" to make my life complete, to give my life direction and structure, nor am I looking for someone to control my every movement. I am looking for someone who desires a strong, confident, and assertive man, who just happens to be a little bent. Bent, in the direction of serving someone who is "bent" in the direction of being served.
Perhaps I should have written out an extended profile before signing up for an account, but alas here I am totally unprepared. I'll end it here and update it later through journal entries.
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I knew the first attempt wouldn't work. In looking at my profile and seeing my description of myself as being someone that wants to serve, I just shook my head. I am not a service sub, nor am I seeking someone who has a need of my service. I have a desire to submit, and am looking for someone who has a desire to dominate. I think there is a huge difference there. |
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Masochism - sexual gratification achieved through humiliation and/or physical and/or verbal abuse. It pays to occassionally look up the definition of words that we "think" we know the definition to already. I always equated a masochist with a pain slut, someone who got off on a very high level of pain and torture. I suppose it is the "high level" that is subjective. I've heard the phrase "kinky is in the eye of the beholder", perhaps it is the same with pain.
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What is the difference between a Pro Domina and a Domme who sees a possible relationship with a submissive only as a means to benefit her own situation in a financial manner.
A woman who up front demands monetary payment for her time is conducting a business transaction. Whereas a woman who claims to seek a personal relationship with a man based on her dominance and his submission, only to later expect some "gift" is a manipulating liar. Some will claim that it is as simple as both getting something out of the relationship. She is fulfilling his need to submit. It may be ignorance on my part but is he not fulfilling her need to dominate??
Call me a fool, but I'll take the hourly rate over buying a set of tires for her car or a new pair of shoes anytime. I'm all in favor of gifts and "doing for each other" in a relationship, but when it becomes the cost of having said relationship, it's no longer a gift.
Ok, so this was a rant. Sorry. At least I did it here rather than on the message boards. This way nobody has to read it, but I got it out of my system. |
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