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Female Switch, 40, cash, Arkansas
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Female Dominant, 55, Pleasentvalley NY, New York
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Male Dominant, 31, Vienna
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About NettedJ
I'm a sub who's recently returned to this scene after a nine year break. Previously had a fair bit of experience. I am sapiosexual and demisexual so please don't come in talking sex straight away. That's only going to be appropriate if you manage to connect with my brain and we become close enough for me to get that kind of deep connection.
I might be sub but I'm not your sub. I don't call anyone Sir until we're actually in that place. It's an honorific that is earned and develops over time. If I call everyone "Sir" who considers themselves a dominant it devalues the title. Just don't expect the brat to disappear even when I do submit. This is my chosen way to spend my leisure time so I want to keep it fun and funny wherever possible.
I'm looking for rl connections where possible. If you can't remember the 90s I'm not going to be submitting to you. So please don't waste your time asking.
I've a wide range of kinks including a deep love of heavy impact play. OTK is fabulous but should never be the main course imo! Happy to chat about interests and see where things go.
You should know I've a bratty streak a mile wide. It's intended to be playful and fun and is a fundamental part of who i am. You're not going to punish it out of me and the attempt will only make me depressed. It's not just in kink circles I am playful and teasing I do it in my vanilla life too. So if you can't play with a brat and make the consequences funishment rather than punishment them please don't bother contacting me as the attempt to change a core part of my personality will make us both miserable. |
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Is it just me who finds it funny when someone shows their true colours because some sub on the Internet reminds them that a dynamic is negotiated not dictated.? People with fragile egos who can't handle a firm no don't deserve anyone's submission. Healthy dominance comes from care for the sub and responsibility especially when done by a sadist. Anything else is abuse. Calling someone an old fat ugly bitch because they don't accept your dictated rules doesn't demonstrate your suitability to receive anyone's submission |
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Please note I am overweight and whilst I am losing weight i will never be slim.? If that's an issue to you that's fine. The only reason my weight isn't on my profile is I've lost 20kg in the last three months and I don't need an entire kinky website monitoring my weightloss for me.
Please also note that I might be sub but I don't need someone else directing my life. I do that very well for myself thank you. I am a capable competent adult who leads in every other area of her life and who relished the opportunity to lay that down for a short while for some fun.? I'm not a slave nor will I ever be. I'm looking for someone who is strong enough to not be threatened by a capable confident and assertive woman.?? |
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