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	About NeedsReverything The melding of your needs and mine, is everything. I always wish to respond to your needs. It doesn't matter, really, what you look like but it matters much what pleases you. For example, I would very much like to be naked, on my hands and knees, cock safely ensconced in a cage, but balls hanging out, vulnerable, and at the same time, on "display" and to be obedient to your needs, as you see fit to direct me. If you enjoy my journal, I'm pretty sure you will enjoy me ;-) I would be your bitch, of course, and it's your say what you wish, and, I understand, your wishes may come in many forms ... but, just for an explicit example (although I understand it's your choice, not mine how to define "service"), I would very much like to be told, by a simple pointing of your fingers, what and where to lick, as you relax on the sofa, perhaps watching the television or otherwise minding your business. If I move too fast, a quick jerk on my leash would tell me to slow down, and if I'm too slow, a slap of the crop on my back, not much unlike that which you would command a dog, is in order. If I'm wearing a mouth dildo, I would thrust as fast as you like, and for as long as you desire, and alone, my tongue would be searching for that spot, deep inside, which makes you smile. Of course, you make me into what I am to you, as my key quality is submissiveness to assertive (yet caring) feminine direction, so, my scenario above can be adapted to cooking dinner for you, or waxing your legs, fetching your things, or just being a warm reactive behind for you to paddle out your frustrations on, just so that you feel better that day.

Sexual objectification play includes things like speech restriction - the sub is simply a sex toy, so you have no need to talk or communicate. Another big aspect for me is orgasm denial. The focus is entirely on the Dominant's pleasure, and the submissive is assumed to have no independent needs, desires or wishes of their own. Some people do denial in a teasing way, to increase the submissive's pleasure, but in objectification this is completely irrelevant - the submissive is simply a sexual object and you wouldn't tease her any more than you'd tease a blow up doll. The object also has no preferences in how they are used, so the submissive will learn to take anal, oral, etc. The Dom might give different names to the holes such as 'your new cunt' or, in the case of a male being used anally, 'your boy pussy' etc. The point is to make the submissive see the hole as just something to be fucked, like pussy, without being particularly delicate about it. Alternatively, the Dom might make the submissive refer to body parts as being something belonging to the Dom, for example I had a partner who insisted I use the expression 'Sir's clit' when talking about my own body. They might even insist on third person speech that we sometimes see being very badly done on the internet. The point is that both parties see the submissive's body as an object, owned by the Dom. Some Doms like to remove a submissive's senses during play, in order to make them more object like. For example, a Dom I played with liked his partners to wear earplugs and have black-out contact lenses as this increased their objectification and enabled him to use them more as an object rather than a person.

I love the voluptuous mental piece of BDSM. I want an intense and significant lover-like relationship; but mainly P/T, as I'm very independent in the every-day world.

I fantasize about and desire a strong, emotionally healthy and deep, very intelligent Woman who will possess me, teach me, open me, and allow me to flourish.

I believe in giving what I want to receive, and I will return your Domination of me to you with my submission ten-fold. And with gusto~ There are many, many places and things I've never experienced...and I want to continue to learn and grow, with you.

I *love* to get words of encouragement and see/feel my Mistress getting her pleasure with me (via worship, flogging, bondage, mental control, service, spanking, etc). I almost live for that when I'm deeply engulfed in submission. That also scares me a little, but I love love love the intensity and most importantly, the emotional component of submission. Guide me to develop my emotional commitment, trust it, and use it wisely. I love, deeply and strongly, and it's part of my submission, to idolize and worship my Mistress.

Regarding the submissive's needs, there's a funny "Yes Mistress" Youtube video from a Domme who pokes fun at the concept of the male submissive saying all the right things but doing none of them. It make light of the all too familiar male femdom-fetish-delivery-system genre.

I must admit, I myself have some fantasies I'd want a mistress to want also, as a mutual experience.

For example, while I enjoy learning and meeting needs, *one* of mine, is that I am given permission, if I'm good, to suck pussy (or at least be used with a face strap in my mouth) every once in a while (the more often better, of course).

However, I also obey your commands to cook, clean, run errands, massage feet, etc.. But I wonder, always, what each Mistress would want is a different thing from each submissive. By way of inquisition, if you were to have two or three things done today by your favorite male submissive, what activities or commands would they be?

Most of we submissive guys, I think, are looking for for feminine direction, than a kinky girlfriend, per se. However, I shouldn't attempt to speak for the others, as I don't know them, but, as for me, it's the melding of the three o's that I enjoy, mainly objectification (which is, after all, a feminine "attention") with the desire to obey (which is an inherent trait of we pack animals), and orgasm (yours!), or, at least a "good boy" coming from you that you are pleased with my service.

Offering my loyalty and obedience is just as a pet would, but the pet would not be expected to be permanently marked or harmed in any way. This is, after all, not a 24/7 type relationship, but one of mutual trust and understanding of rational humans who do have their own lives to lead.

Having set that boundary, I do so much enjoy the idea of being taken home and immediately dropping to my knees at the threshold, my eyes downcast in obedient submission, awaiting my interpretation of your curt instructions. I so much want to be your good boy that my every sense will be tuned to what your command and desires may be. I am interpreting, rightly or wrongly, your every command, to understand what it is that pleases you, even as I do the same with your emails. I try to understand you, and spend my senses on knowing what you want, and trying to please you by giving you that which I can.

From my perspective, I am below you, as I drop to my knees at the threshold, watching you from the top of my downcast eyes, as you walk away from me to a convenient position near the center of the room. I do not interpret any commands, so I wait for you, as that is only what I can interpret that which pleases you at this moment.. After what seems like an eternity of anticipation, you call to me, and my ears suddenly perk up in anticipation. I am not thinking of my needs, but yours. "What does she want?", "What will make her happy", "Oh I so much want to please her." "I hope I can be a good boy." You say "Come here pet, I have something I want you to do for me." I crawl, head still bowed, toward you as you watch me in delight of my submissive obedience. Now I am under you, and you say "Stop pet", as I am still looking downward, I do not notice you hiking up your skirt until you command "Suck my clit". These are commands I have been waiting for, like a dog waits for you to throw the ball just so I can go out and prove to you that I am a good boy, and one who can catch that ball for you, at your behest. I eagerly, perhaps too eagerly, lunge upward with my upturned mouth, but you step back,and I hesitate.

You dictate "Not so fast pet!", as I now understand better how to please you. Corrected, I move slower, with more restraint, as I look up, surprised to see you are not wearing panties. I kiss your thighs, and the warmth of our skin begins to merge together getting warmer the closer to your inner core I get. I first slowly and softly nudge your moistening folds with my nose, a bit back and forth, to allow me to savor the succulent complex scents, and then I kiss the outer lips softly with my lips, pushing my tongue slowly into the inner folds, as the sweet bouquet becomes mixed with an excitement of my taste buds, first from the tip of my tongue, but, then, as I lean into you, almost pushing you over in desire, as you step back and lean against the couch for support. Your long-denied erotic senses beginning to take over, one hand brace against the couch for support, you spread your thighs wider for me to better access your inner core, your right hands suddenly grip my hair and shoves me further, deeper, into your delectably moist and sweet crevices.

"Harder!" you command, but when I am too hard, you suddenly, but not unkindly, pull back on my hair, still firmly grasped in your hand, as you guide my motions with gentle tugs as one guides a horse with the reins. All my senses are tuned to what your commands are, so the back of my head senses the desired motion of my mouth, all the while my taste buds are exploding with sensations of the taste of you, which I am learning to understand your moods from. I am integrating your movements, matching them as I can, while you thrust my head into your now soaking wet pussy, even as my saliva dribbles onto the floor as I lap voraciously at your pussy, sucking in and out on your clit, until you are finally released from your tension.

My reward, as you step away, satisfied, and pat down your skirt into a more dignified position, is a well deserved "You are a good boy!".

Your needs are to be understood by me, as I am to please you.

I'm not all that experienced, but, willing to learn, and to obey and to be a submissive you can be pleased with. If/when we click, I would wish to be waiting for you, on my knees, naked, my cock safely caged, waiting for sight and sound of you, as you get closer, your soft scent would waft into my brain, causing me to salivate in anticipation of pleasing you. You tug on my leash, which is the command to follow you, as you've had a rough day, as you sit on the couch, and snap your fingers which is my clue to get you a glass of wine. You sit, sigh, and begin to unwind for the day.

Meanwhile, I look at you in a submissive state, so close at your feet I could touch you, but I sit still, as I am trained to await your command. You finally look at me, after a period of a few minutes of letting your springs unwind, and you whisper, "Do you want to please me", and I nod my head and whisper back "Yes Mistress". You reach down for the end of the leash, lying next to you on the couch, and tug me softly, which is my signal to be alert for a command. My response pleases you, as you smile, which is my indication you are happy to have me as your bitch.

I eagerly nudge you but you slap me soundly with a crop which I hadn't even noticed in your hand, as my indication to move slowly, and at your pace. You pull on my collar twice, two short quick tugs, which means approach slowly, face first, at a full crawl, as I begin at your feet, working my tongue amongst your toes, and up, and up, and up, until you begin to relax as I breath heavily, within an inch of your pussy, where you can feel the moist heat from my panting breath. Still, I await until you allow me the pleasure, by saying... "Good boy ... you may please me now".

I always wish to respond to your needs. It doens't matter, really, what you look like but it matters much what pleases you. For example, I would very much like to be naked, on my hands and knees, cock safely ensconced in a cage, and be told to service you as you see fit. I would be your bitch, of course, and it's your say what you wish, but, for an example, I would like to be told, by a simple pointing of your fingers, what and where to lick, as you relax on the sofa, perhaps watching the television or otherwise minding your business. If I move too fast, a quick jerk on my leash would tell me to slow down, and if I'm too slow, a slap of the whip on my back, not much unlike that which you would command a dog, is in order. If I'm wearing a mouth dildo, I would thrust as fast as you like, and for as long as you desire, and alone, my tongue would be searching for that spot, deep inside, which makes you smile.

I enjoy being trained as a submissive servant to a low key woman who simply wants to be enjoyed. I want to lick if it pleases her, anywhere she likes, but, truth be told, I especially enjoy licking pussy and being used with a dildo in my mouth, and then curling up at her feet when done, to relax. Just like cute loyal puppy.

It's all about your needs, and mine.

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