ok I can see i need to post a lil clarification ! I am a newbie to this lifestyle While i am curious of most things to dowith the lifestyle I am NOT looking for some one who wants to share me with his g/f /wife I am not into women in any way shape or form !!!!! I also don't want to Be a sub for some one younger than me so if your under 40 please pass me up unless you just want friendship for chat  I am not a trained sub so i wont mind being friends but i cannot even think about someone younger than me as my dom Sorry to those of you who are displeased by this tuff!!!!  I hope those of you who are here can understand