NeedLovingFLR

I get a lot of "looking for masculine sub for FLR", and also intelligent and successful.   Here's my advice:....yes, I do have a mind lol.

Long distance is hard.  The only exception is a willing investment to always have a date certain at the end of each visit. Without that to look forward to and keep in the forefront, minds will wander. Once a month is a basic minimum and I'm successful enough to have put myself in a place I could do that, but many cannot. Id entertain it only with someone able to do it, financially, work-wise, family-wise. That narrows it down to few.

I actually think it's possible. Just hard.  Personally, I think there's times it could have gave been great....but it doesn't always go to plan.  Almost heartbreaking but it definitely involves sacrifice and lack of discipline can prove fatal....its where honesty is paramount if there's 2 intelligent people. 

If you are in your 30s or older, and don't have your life together, in my opinion, a masculine guy, especially a successful intelligent one probably won't feel submissive to someone that dies not have that stability.

Online only is fine, just not for me, I expect, yes even as a submissive partner I have expectations, to meet.  As a masculine, intelligent, successful man, I'm looking for something and wont waste my time once I feel someone is just online. Usually, in that situation, something to hide I've found.

Each connection is unique. Love yourself enough to understand you deserve happiness and adapt, don't self sabotage. You deserve love, we all do, be strong enough to take a chance. Thete is no cookie-cutter set of rules. They are relationship dependent and take time. 

If you have the stance of no negotiation, you make the rules, period, thats not a masculine sub that is responsive to that. I have a say, let's be real....if it's truly a relationship you seek. Along with that, a power exchange is only possible over time with a masculine, intelligent man. If a guy kneels first thing, that's not a masculine intelligent man you've got there lol, I guess if it's a play session maybe, but im talking FLR. 

Honesty can go a long way to progressing the relationship. Actually, honesty about things that show your unafraid to say the hard thing, is quite appealing and builds trust.

Take advantage of opportunities. They are actually quite rare, at least for me. Not for play, or online, but for real and remotely in the ballpark of what I'm seeking.

You may have a hundred guys, waiting to kneel, all masculine, successful, intelligent, equal to or greater than me,, also looking for a relationship. Congratulations on that. However, I'm picky and I'm too old to compete. I don't want someone saying they are looking for a long term FLR only to have so many irons in the fire. I don't see that as sustainable long term personally, Not for a masculine, intelligent, successful man looking for a long term FLR.

Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death.

Anais Nin

Forever and a day

 you carry your chains 

Forever a slave

to a past that remains...

AV

It is not the strongest of the species that survives

nor the most intelligent that survives

It is the one that is the most adaptable to change

Charles Darwin