needadarkergray

aside from being an extreme masochist, i have an actual life, if i don't respond immediately, i am sorry, but I will get to you...and seriously... don't order me to do things if you and i haven't even met, i won't send you my phone number,  skanky photos, or do things to myself because you have deemed yourself in control of the universe and all those in it...including me...i promise you WE WILL NOT WORK! i know my place, i  know who i am, i also expect a gentleman not a smelly hillbilly that can't operate a door for a lady... 

if you have fantasies too dark to explore...i will happily keep your secret.. no limit too extreme

FYI: being a dom, does NOT mean being an asshole and treating me like shit, or demanding i come to your house for a hard fuck and a blowjob.......if this is what you are into...i am truly not your type...you can get that on the corner, 

looking for someone that has potential for long term, but intelligent enough not to expect it after a 15 min chat.    I realize not everyone i meet has that same interest. 

I am NOT a smoker, nor do i use drugs. i am looking for the same in a man.. 

reading 50 shades of gray...dear me, how boring, i find his tenderness endearing, but quite frankly, i am hungry for a more sadistic flavor, and yet gentle, and has a seasoned understanding of the comfort a sub needs after giving her body, and mind to another, not to mention the level of trust that builds between them. I have been doing this for a long time, but out of practice, I don't know if i will ever get rid of the itch that is felt when pain and pleasure are mixed together so sweetly...