What is the matter with me?????

i do not understand why a master would ask what your hard limits are then to inform you that he was going to push one that you felt storng about that you find a 100% turn off that is just wrong. Then tells you he does not care that he has the right to push your hard limtes.
I WAS THOUGHT THAT A HARD LIMIT MEANT JUST THAT IT WAS NOT TO BE PUSHED!?
PLEASE DO NOT GET ME WRONG I LOVE TO PLAY LOVE TO BE PUSHED TO NEW LIMITS BUT MY HARD LIMITS WILL BE NOT BE PUSHED I ONLY HAVE 3 OF THEM

#1 NO KIDS
#2 NO SCAT
#3 NO ANIMALS

If you can honer my three limits please feel free to write me.