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About NDgirl
BEFORE SENDING ME A MESSAGE PLEASE TAKE NOTE THAT I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A PLAY PARTNER AT THIS MOMENT IN TIME. I AM DEALING WITH CHRONIC PAIN AND LET ME MENTION THAT IT SUCKS. LOL BUT REALLY I AM JUST NOT LOOKING RIGHT NOW. FRIENDS ARE DIFFERENT, NORMAL FRIENDS..... I DONT MIND MAKING NEW FRIENDS. BUT RIGHT NOW MY FOCUS IN LIFE IS ON OTHER THINGS RIGHT NOW. I LOGGED IN TONIGHT BECAUSE I RAN INTO A GENTLEMAN IN A LOCAL STORE TONIGHT THAT I MET ON THIS SITE. SO I WANTED TO SEND HIM A PRIVATE MESSAGE.
Before sending me a private message please know that I am married. My husband isn't into BDSM and there for has given me permission to seek what I need. Unusual yes, but it works for us. I'm not out to cheat (or get laid), because he will know where I am and who I am with. He realizes that this is an important part of me, and it's either allow me to have those needs met or our relationship will crumble and end. That's the short version of it. If you don't agree with what I am doing then please keep that opinion to yourself.
I am NOT a dominate (Domme), please don't ask me to play that roll!!!! Those types of messages will be blocked. I know my photo suggests otherwise by it's goth like nature. But it's my way of having a face photo without having to have a full up front face photo. I'm adding this because I've gotten a couple of PM's of that nature and I want to be clear about this.
Now to think of what else to write that would be appropriate...........
Over the years, a couple of munchkins later.... I've let my weight get out of control. That is changing now. I've lost 72 pounds so far, (sadly my current weight listed is my current weight) but I feel good about myself right now as well. I'm currently at 258, and even though I'm still overweight it's better than what it was. I have made lots of changes which also includes eating healthier, and exercising. I'm eating more raw veggies and fruits of course as well as trying to eat cleaner for those who know what that means. I do still eat meat (cooked) because protein is really important to my diet since having 2/3 of my pancreas removed. But I'm also trying to eat more vegetarian a couple of nights a week. I am not diabetic yet because of that but I do have it closely monitored. (the pancreas regulates your insulin) I'm working on getting my weight back down to being HWP. But the weight didn't come on over night and so it's not going off over night either. But I am working towards that goal. That is a goal that is really important to me and I will succeed!!!!
I've been away from the site for some time due to medical reasons. (I guess I can say I am a cancer survivor now. Or will be when I am cancer free for 5 years 4 years from now). I had pancreatic cancer but it was caught early and by accident so it didn't spread. All I needed was surgery but the recovery was long and drawn out and wasn't much fun due to complications. But hey, now I can cross off that I've taken a "life flight" plane ride back to Rochester off my bucket list. How many can say that? Okay how many have THAT on their bucket list..... LOL The cancer that I had was the more rare, slower growing pancreatic cancer. The type that Steve Jobs died from, and in fact that was on the news just after I had my surgery. But just as deadly if not treated. So I've been given a second chance at life and I'm going to enjoy it. After all the trauma that I went through post surgery with complications it seems to have triggered fibromyalgia. By changing the way that I eat and exercising I feel better than i have for a long time. With the occasional bad day (body pain) day thrown in.
funny how most sites updates your age for you.... But not this one.... I had to adjust it manually. When did you last do yours? More to come later when I take the time to do it. |
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Thank you SlavetrainerND and mysticvanity for hosting at your place last night. Thank you KinkyTKE for an awesome evening with your toys and experience. I had a fabulous time and the marks will be enjoyed until they fade, the pictures forever........ |
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Last night I had the chance to meet up with three people from Collar Me. Thank you KinkyTKE, SlavetrainerND and mysticvanity for a wonderful evening! |
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