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| Understanding myself:
I have tried various lifestyle relationships, and am not averse to trying more, however recent changes in my life mean I may be placing emphasis on things outside the lifestyle a while.
So, I am here to make friends, meet people, and generally keep myself involved in the lifestyle while at the same time finding out if a relationship I thought was dead is in fact reblossoming. I know that this time around I am not going to settle, I will find a way to be me and still have the relationship if it's at all possible. Feel free to ask if you would like more information.
I tried the checklists, but I find my answers depend very much on the role. I am NOT a switch, but can and do top in service. So, while I may not be fond of chastity as a submissive, I can and will use it as a topping tool.
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Alone, quiet, the emptiness seems a friend. The difference between being alone and being alone and waiting for someone is huge.
My company is my own, my thoughts both somber and hopeful. The new year draws closer, and with each tick of the clock I know my life becomes more my own.
I have struggled, I have fought, been wounded deeply, but now, as the new year approaches I see myself a bit more clearly. When I lost all that I held dear, standing naked and defeated by the storms around me, only then did I realize...
I still stand, I am here, I will go on. |
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I was recently asked what I am seeking now, so here it goes:
I am recently out of a relationship in which I was hurt badly. As in any relationship story there are two sides, I believe I am right in my feelings but will also admit the other party probably feels they were as well. The truth is probably somewhere in between.
That having been said, right now I am seeking friendships, perhaps play with the right Domme/Switch.
I am a submissive who can top as a service, but have no doubt, there is a part of me that craves surrender. I will just be very careful with that for now until I can trust my feelings.
If you are comfortable with this, then please, feel free to contact me. |
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Be honest with me:
Don't say you think I am sweet or anything else, if all you want is play.
Don't say you want to be my friend if all you want is play.
Don't keep things from me, the truth may hurt, but honesty allows me to trust you.
If you can't be there for my feelings, tell me. I can then decide how much, if anything I can give.
If your life is too full right now, we can be friends, but don't try to touch my submission, I don't know how to give a little bit.
Know what you expect/want/need from me, then together we can decide if it's possible.
I am many things, but first and foremost I am a person, with feelings, hopes, dreams, asiprations. I can play, I can laugh, I can have fun, just don't tell me you want more if that's all I am to you. |
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To those of you who delete emails unread, or don't bother to read them because the sender doesn't match what you are looking for I have a message:
Sometimes those emails are nothing more than one person reaching out to another in friendship or perhaps even an attempt to help you smile. There are times when I see news on a profile when I will simply send a congratulations, or condolences, as appropriate.
So, if you have deleted or left emails unread, you are the ones who have missed something. |
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| Age: 48 |
| Adelaide,
Australia |
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