NchantingPoison1

Because of the uniqueness of what I am looking for and because of my desire to create a bond based on reality I believe my original profile was too abstract. I have found that I am getting a lot of these BDSM BOTS that say all the perfect key words trying to fulfill their own fantasies under the guise of being submissive and kneel to ANY Goddess/Mistress that says Hi, which is excellent because many Amazing Dommes out there cater to that however that is absolutely not and will never be me, honestly that kind of man disgusts me.

So here is the rewrite of my profile:

Real Life, Real Devotion, Real Direction”

I'm a woman who thrives when leading with purpose—intentionally, lovingly, and fiercely.
I’m dominant by nature, but nurturing by heart.
I don’t lead just to control—I lead with structure, direction, and intention. I value vulnerability. I appreciate emotional intelligence. I expect accountability, devotion, and a real willingness to live this life side-by-side... you on your knees by my side not just kneeling in front of me.

Guys I’m not here for games so please don’t waste YOUR time because I won’t allow you to waste mine. I get it you have this fantasy in your mind of being dominated and drained of everything you have everything you are… your existence… believe me I Get It!! But we are not talking about that Here. I’m not speaking about it Here. I will say this I take pride in ownership because I don’t just strip you down I do it with care with intention and preciseness so then I can build you back up to serve ME and stand by MY side and kneel at MY feet with pride knowing the difference in quality (because we all know what's out there).

I’m looking for two men (or one exceptional man) who wants to serve, support, and share life in full, surrendering with intention—not just behind closed doors, but every day. What I want is more than a BDSM fantasy or a “Lifestyle” situation. I want a shared life: the late-night talks, morning rituals and routines, goals, activities and shared space.

We don’t need to fit a “label” we just need to build something real, something daily, something lasting. I want real connections, real routines, and a real life and real servitude from a real and genuine man/men.

I'm designing something sacred—and I don’t believe in rushing the blueprints of that but I’m also not willing to entertain anyone unable to completely put all of themselves into something like this. “This” being a true relationship based on a genuine need 3/both of us have.

I look forward to the daily moments when you know before I have to say a word, quiet conversations, daily rituals, and sleeping content with you curled up at the foot of my bed.. and the long-term vision of what we build together.

By nature, I lead. I plan, I create safety, and I guide with patience but I do love crave desire Power not the power you have to demand but the power that comes from when you look to the person standing by your side and know YOU (meaning Me) created THAT (meaning You) and you know HE knows it too.

My world is full of movement and meaning: I work hard, value deep peace at home, and cherish quiet strength.

I enjoy the simple things: fresh sheets, a clean kitchen, someone who knows how I take my tea and my wine… and when I need a moment to just breathe. I’m the type of woman who can go from hanging out together cooking in the kitchen to take that apron off touch your ankles and bend you over with our favorite toy. I love to host intimate events with my boys by my side, but I’m not much of a fan of people (that’s the voyeur in me). Sometimes I hide away and go no contact from the world but never my subs I want them by my side, always.
I'm not interested in being everything for someone unable or unwilling to give all of themselves to me willingly with pride and without hesitation.

I own my own business and am working on my second book in a trilogy. I make most of my income as a life a business coach and for fun I’m helping a friend write a series of one-woman/one-man plays, so yes I enjoy writing and love words. Which is why communication is key.

I like nerds, creative people, anyone who comes home smelling like wood or gasoline. Not fond of muscle heads. Prefer someone who is forced to be an alpha in the real world but knows his place. Truly not fond of men who submit to any random. I like men with good taste in everything from food to music to style and in my mind good style can absolutely start with a pair of jeans. I love a good accent, even an edgy or hood one… Lol

As a Domme woman, I truly believe this part of me comes from within and is a natural behavior, particularly for me. It was also a learned behavior because of how I was raised. I was taught that it means nothing if you don’t have that man kneeling beside you eager to be there, knowing you trained them to be perfect and beautiful just for you. This is a huge part of my family lineage. I respect my family and appreciate that not every person has the privilege I have of being able to share all aspects of myself and my life with my family, so I strive to maintain open communication especially about boundaries when it comes to families and how to manage that with respect to what we share.

I love that feeling of watching my person, the man I created, walking through a room with pride knowing every step he takes, everything he touches, every smile was choreographed by me. Enjoying a smug smile of my own, knowing why he’s so exceptional.