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| It's possible to be both a gentleman and a Dominant......why settle for less?
I'm healthy, well educated, divorced, and exploring.....a new adventure waits with a new friend, a new play partner, or a submissive looking for a special experience.
I'm here to actually meet people.....and enjoy the process. Email progressing to chat and phone, arranging a meet and greet, typically something that actually resembles a date (OMG).....and not in a fast food parking lot or motel doorway. But even as I'm very talented at cyber, I'm not here for internet thrills, endless emails, pointless chats, web camming.........or all night discussions of protocol. I'm of an age that celebrates actually having RL friends.
I live a full and complete 24/7 lifestle......of which BDSM is a recreational part. I am not a sadist, and do not practice degradation or humiliation. I believe BDSM is, by nature, intensely sexual.....and do not mind being considered a bedroom Dom if you find labels a necessity. With a lifestime in theater, I'm an expert at roleplay, and probably have a profoundly different notion of role play than many due to that experience. I have a reputation, with references, for an astonishing toy collection and the skills to use them with great effect.
While recently divorced, and married most of my life, I enjoy enduring connections, committed LTRs......but let me be clear. If its your nature - or need - to speak of LTRs in our first chats, or demand a committed relationship before meeting, we're not on the same page. I'm open to an LTR.....and perhaps ultimately searching here, there and everywhere. But committing to an LTR is the culmination of a process, not the first step. Nor will I offer a collar, put you in 'consideration', or demand exclusivity from you....for some time during which you'd be expected to share interests, meet each others friends, share passions ....... and discover if we are, in fact, a match.
I'd also ask you to look into your own heart......and if you're a 'jealous' type, we're likely to clash. Neither poly or swinging is an expectation or requirement .... but I've experienced both.....with results varying as the individuals varied. That's your choice. But more importantly, as I explore, if you'll freak seeing me at a munch, event, social.....or simply out and about with someone else, we're likely not a good match. On the other hand, I will introduce you, and hope you'll make a new friend.
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Is there a difference between "well fucked" (or even really, really well fucked - and fucked senseless? Think so.
My latest tussle illustrates. She adores flogging above most other impact play - so we casually started a bare-bottom flogging. I've come to learn that while she tolerates and enjoys some hard and heavy use from time to time, moderation and longer play is better for foreplay - and before we knew it, and hour and a half had passed ---- and now she was a hungry slut.
Arms tied apart, legs in a spreader bar......and a zip line of clothes pins attached, with hitachi applied as I watched her "surf" sub space on the edge of orgasm. Watching her for signs, I went to high speed on the hitachi and as the orgasm peaked, pulled the zip line off in a rush. She probably neared or exceeded her personal best on the screaming scale.
Well fucked? Assuredly!
But fucked senseless didn't occur until her legs were back near her ears --- and I simply tore it up, My arousal from the extended play was now mine to ride, and ride it I did. At the end, she was speaking in tongues.
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Want a "twue" Dom? Look no further!!!!
I'm of mixed emotions. I like women. Alot! I'm in a good relationship, and we're forming an enduring, life connection. But in our lifestyle, I DO NOT ---- out of nowhere ---- grab a handful of hair, force her to her knees, and fuck her throat. Not saying I don't think about it.......or couldn't physically "do it". I could "DO" her ass too --- or anything else I want. Just sayin.
Truth is ----- I'm truly a "good guy". I really make the effort. But I know, in RL, I CAN tax her understanding, her patience, her personality. We're different people and -- GOSH -- we're different. Perhaps the ability to accept our differences is the single criteria that will unite us, strengthen our bond.
I've been "involved" in BDSM for more than 40 years --- in one way or another. I'm intelligent -- bragging, but in the top 1% - so I've REALLY, REALLY thought about what a BDSM relationship means.
Here's my conclusion: I'm a "twue" DOM ----- and a pervert. I DO NOT say that like it's a bad thing.
Here's what "I, I, I" and WE seek.
We enjoy our 'adventures'.......the "twue" DOM calls them scenes. Whatever.
We read profile after profile .....and the ladies essentially want to be a "slut in the sheets, and a princess on the streets." Go figure.
So here's the deal. After a lifetime in theater, I'm an expert in role play. If you've never tried "theater", DO NOT just blow off that experience.
A "TRUE" --- and the difference with "TWUE" is intentional.
When the "play light" is on --- (BTW, that's called consent!!!!), I can be the "Master" of your dreams - because we'll have talked about it and agreed on the script.......but I'll know your limits and know how to "ad lib".
Try it!!! You'll be astonished how much you enjoy when we remove all the bullshit. |
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With proper attribution, this was worth keeping!
How To Stay Young
by CalypsoCarol
1. Try everything twice.
On one woman's tombstone she said she wanted this epitaph:
"Tried everything twice. Loved it both times!"
2. Keep only cheerful friends.
The grouches pull you down.
(Keep this in mind if you are one of those grouches!)
3. Keep learning:
Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever...
Never let the brain get idle. 'An idle mind is the devil's workshop.'
And the devil's name is Alzheimer's!
4. Enjoy the simple things.
5. Laugh often, long and loud.
Laugh until you gasp for breath.
And if you have a friend who makes you laugh,
spend lots and lots of time with him/her.
6. The tears happen:
Endure, grieve, and move on.
The only person who is with us our entire life is ourselves.
Live while you are alive.
7. Surround yourself with what you love:
Whether it's family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever...
Your home is your refuge.
8. Cherish your health:
If it is good, preserve it.
If it is unstable, improve it.
If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.
9. Don't take guilt trips...
Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county,
to a foreign country, but NOT to where the guilt is.
10. Tell the people you love that you love them at every opportunity. |
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| Age: 20 |
| Cavite,
Philippines |
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