naughtygirl65

Female Dominant, 20, Palm Harbor, Florida

Female Switch, 33

Male Submissive, 20, Dallas, Texas

I am a companion pet who seeks a new owner. However, I am choosy and the process takes time. My mind must be won over first. Yes, I have a "body pic" on here..that is how I get ur attention....don't lie and say it doesn't matter. Looks matter to all of us and I am at least honest about it.

Good friend taking me out for Princess treatment. Been in a funk with school overload and missing meaningful adult interaction. My one night off from the kids. Looking forward to being spoiled rotten for a change. It has been FOREVER...... On a funny note, this a.m. at school, went to sit down and the butt seam on my jeans ripped completely right down the middle. Had to go buy new pair...thank God I had a sweater that covered. Those poor 4th graders would have had nightmares for years to come lol

Ok so wanna hear a funny story? Just a glimpse into my world of fakes and liars that I hear so many Doms complain they find in subbies (sorry about that all you Sirs who are legit). 1) Meet a guy for a "vanilla" date from another site. Explicitly tell him over and over, this is not a booty call and sex will NOT be on the table. Proceeds to finish dinner, take me for a walk and try to get in my pants. Really??? Then....when it is clear he will not be getting any...he is ready to schedule Date #2 (of course the only reason for date #2 is because he must subscribe to the 3 date minimum before sex bullshit). Still trying to grab me and I am now looking like a Martial Arts student warding off his advances. Needless to say, I did NOT schedule another date with him. 2) So...back to the BDSM world. Chatting with someone who looks appealing in body pics, then he sends a face pic which clearly does not match the slender build in the photos. Upon closer inspection of photos, it becomes evident there are 3 different body shots, clearly not the same person. I mean, for pete's sake, if you're going to be deceptive right off the bat, don't u think at some point when u reveal ur body it will become obvious? When I send him a message telling him he is not legit....I get silence. Point proven. For fuck's sake guys! If you're going to just look for a gal for kinky sex, say that up front! Don't throw some terms around from D/s u looked up on the internet, claim to be a Dom, post a bunch of BS pics of? ur fantasy cock, and then run like hell when ur busted. Just because there are people willing to be submissive, it does not mean we are all a bunch of idiots.....

Feast or famine....

(sigh) I cannot rush, and I have increasingly less free time in my social life. Perhaps this is something I must prolong until my schooling is complete, or use it for part-time play. There is BS on both sides..fake Doms seeking blow jobs (c'mon, really?), and I see alot of Doms complaining about fake subs. I don't know what I'm doing any more than any other newbie, or what I want.? But I'm smart enough to follow my instincts and know that I will not be cattle prodded into proceeding with anyone I have not even met for a conversation to see how our chemistry is. This whole process takes TIME..it is psychological and emotional LONG before it becomes physical. If you cannot lay the foundation, don't expect to lay me. Nuff said.....

Note: Bitch is NOT a label of respect...and especially not from those under 40! I am a 45 year old woman not a 25 year old girl!

This sucks! So much back and forth bullshit. Yes, I will do real time..but will not meet with someone not strong enough. And no...I will not jump right into playtime until I have met in public and established comfort level. I am not a COMPLETE idiot!

Just wanted to say how pleasantly surprised I am at the courteous nature of so many potential Masters who have contacted me. That maybe didn't come out right lol. I mean, I have tried hard to reply to all messages just because I was raised with good manners and figure if someone is gonna take time out to write, the least I can do is acknoweldge them. And...unlike what so often happens in the "real world"...I have almost always gotten thanks in return as well as best wishes if I let them know I am not interested. Could it be that this new realm I am exploring is populated with "real men" who know how to be gracious and caring as well as strict and punishing.....hmmm very interesting..... And so...my journey has begun....

Don't Get Bent If... I don't accept ur friend request. I will not be adding anyone until I have filtered thru e-mails, chats, etc. and feel comfortable with you. I appreciate the invites, but please understand I am choosy in who I allow in my friends network. Let's take time getting to know each other and if we get along, great, we can add one another. I have many acquaintances in my "real life" and very few friends. I'm a picky woman...for good reasons. Thanks for understanding!!! P.S. Feel free to admire me tho lol! xoxox

WHAT I WANT.... I am a woman who has long been a control freak....then one day in a YIM chat with someone from another adult site, a man SAW me for the first time and followed his hunch that I needed to yield....craved it. He was gentle, but firm...called me Pet....made me feel desired and protected and safe. It was a relief for me. Since then I have thought about what I want...I have an online Master that I would love to serve in person...and he is close. But he is married. As most/many of the Masters I have corresponded with seem to be. I don't want to be their outlet when their own wives won't help...and some seem to just want to punish and mistreat women....like they would NEVER do with their wives/gfs. So....for now I am exploring...I have limited free time because I am now a divorced single mom of 2 young kids. So what time I do have needs to be spent efficiently and effectively...and in secret. I would like to belong to someone...I know I will serve willingly and well for the right person...but there are limits and I do not subscribe to the hardcore BDSM lifestyle that involves sadism, mashochism and torture in its own right. If that makes me too vanilla, then so be it. I know I have a Master somewhere and He will find me and he will SEE me and recognize what I need and will gain control and trust almost instantly because I will recognize Him as well. I am extremely loyal and would love to be taken in and trained and explore my limits and theirs. Boundaries and respect are still things that should not be taken or given lightly for me. I know there are alot of weirdos, pervs and men who neither respect nor admire women and are looking for an outlet to punish. I will proceed with caution and will know when the time is right for action.....and then I will yield completely and willingly and give my control to my Master so that I may rest....and find relief and release....at long last.

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