NaughtyElf85

Female Dominant, 20, Palm Harbor, Florida

Female Switch, 33

Male Submissive, 20, Dallas, Texas

So I'm debating getting a toe ring. My gf says I should get a regular ring, but most of the ones I see in stores are the little flexible ones, open on one end. She says those pinch your toe and she doesn't like them Evidently, I should get oe on eBay, a size 5. I dunno... what do you think? Are toe rings sexy? Or just gross?

I just set my mail controls so that anyone from out of state, over forty, or w/out a profile gets dumped into my bulk mail folder. Wish I could set it so that anyone w/out a pic got dumped as well. Let me see if I can make this clear... if your profile doesn't have a pic, send one with your first message to me. Otherwise, your message will get dumped.

Found on the Kinky Dictionary: "Sub Frenzy - A very strong, sometimes overwhelming, desire to find a dominant partner or to become immersed in BDSM-related activities, sometimes seen in people who identify strongly as submissive, particularly people who have either just newly discovered their submissive side or have not partaken in BDSM-related activities for a long time. People in the grip of sub frenzy may sometimes make unsafe or unwise choices."

Okay, here's the skinnie on the "bad scene." Met a guy here on CM. Chatted with him and we hit it off. He seemed to be experienced and know what he was doing, so I decided to meet him for coffee. The coffee meeting went well, we had an undeniable chemistry. So we arranged a "date." Went to dinner, then to his place afterwards for a scene. He started by tying me up and I was really enjoying it. Then I asked him to make it tighter, especially around my upper body. He paused, asked me if I was sure. I said yes, and he obliged. It felt great. Then he got weird. It was like I said the secret word or something. He finished tying me up, then asked if he could gag me... I wasn't sure, but I said okay. He pulls out this huge ballgag with this elaborate harness that goes over my head. I know, I should have said no, but I let him because I wanted to know how it felt. Big mistake. So there I am, naked, arms tied behind me, legs and ankles tied, gagged. Blindfolded. And he just goes nuts. He's moving around, doing stuff and I get nervous. I tell him to stop... Oops... can't do that... I'm gagged! He says he's going to flog me and I'm telling him no, shaking my head, but he just goes ahead and does it. And it doesn't feel good... it hurts! I'm struggling around, trying to get away, and he gets on top of me, pins me down. Then he starts smacking me with his hands, then some sort of paddle. He rolls me over, and goes to work on my ass. I want him to stop, but I can't. WTF is wrong with this guy, I'm thinking? Then I start to worry... maybe he's dangerous... what am I doing, all tied up with this stranger? Thank ghod my GF's BF had *insisted* that I set up a safe call with them. As soon as I got there, I texted them the address. After 30 minutes, they called. When I didn't answer (the phone was in the living room) they got in the car and drove over. So, after forever with jerkface having his way with me, there's a pounding on the door. He's all like WTF, but goes and answers it, telling me "not to go anyplace" like all cute and stuff. Then they come running in, she's yelling at him, and he's taking a knife and cutting me loose. I didn't even care that I was naked, just get me away from this dickhead! He was all pissed that we cut his precious rope, but my GF's BF is helping me get dressed and she's yelling at him, threatening to call the police and accuse him of assault. It was weird... I liked that he was helping me, and I think her yelling was scarier than if he'd yelled at him. Anyway, she drove me home and made sure I was alright. They sat with me for like an hour to make sure I was alright. They were so sweet... it was like they knew exactly what to do, even thought they said they'd never done it before. Anyway, I am still shaken, but I guess it wasn't too horrible in retrospect... at least he didn't do all the things he could have. I don't know if he was malicious so much as he was just a jerk. Anyway, I need to pull waaaaaaay back for a while. If you want to chat with me, I guess it's alright, but I'm not in any hurry to meet anyone in RT right now...

Had a terrible scene... they guy seemed great, but once I got to his place he turned into a complete ass. Thankfully, when my friend couldn't get in touch with me, they came over and "rescued" me. After last night I am pulling way back on this, slowing it down a LOT. I am debating pulling my profile altogether, or perhaps just looking for a woman Domme. I am so jealous of my gf right now. How did she manage to find such a wonderful man?

Went over to my GF's house tonight to watch a scene with her BF. It was really intense and left me wanting more. The first thing she did was strip and OMG, it was freaky. I've always thought that she was a bit heavy, and she looks very mousy, keeps her hair in a bun and wears glasses. But naked she was utterly gorgeous, like a goddess, with beautiful curves, just as pale and soft as a pillow. And she has this long, cascading hair that seems to just be everywhere. I was shocked at the transformation. He hooked these padded leather cuffs onto her wrists, gagged her with a padded leather bit gag, and blindfolded her. He hooked her hands over her head to two eyebolts in the doorframe... they keep stuff hanging off of them normally, and I'd never noticed them.. is that cool or what? He started out by rubbing this animal fur all over her, and you could tell she was getting into it, as she was moving along with him. He would play with her nipples and her pussy every now and again, and whisper in her ear. It was very hot. Then he pulled out a rataan cane, a fat one, and started gently tapping on her ass, up and down her legs and her back, gently but very fast. He ratcheted up the intensity and would occasionally whack her harder and she would yell. My instinct was to go and help her, but of course that's what it was about... it was weird but sexy. He did that for a while, then came back with the fur, played with her some more. She was getting more and more into it, getting very horny I could tell.? I was too. Next he went to work on her with a light flogger, then more fur, then a heavier flogger, more fur, heavier flogger, fur, then something I didn't recognize but which had a leather flap on the end of some leather thongs. He asked if I wanted to try any of it on her, but I declined. At one point he went in front of her and was pretending like he was going to smack her boobs... she had told me that having her boobs abused like that is a "hard limit." Still, she acted like she thought he would do it. She'd told me she can get her head in a place where she believes he will, even though she knows he won't. Finally, after about a half-hour, he played with her nipples and pussy and she started asking for permission to cum... except it was all muffled because of the gag. I could understand her just fine, but he kept telling her he couldn't, that she needed to slow down and say it more clearly. God, I was ready to cum after all that. Finally, he gave her permission and, no shit, she squirted all down her legs onto the floor! I have never, ever seen that for real... I thought it was a myth, but there it was! I guess they expected it, as they had put a towel on the floor beneath her. He unhooked her wrists and walked her over to the couch. She was very shaky and wobbly. He wrapped her in a blanket while he took off the gag and blindfold. Then he sat there and held her for about ten minutes. It was sooooo sweet... I felt like an intruder watching them there so intimate. Afterwards she got up and she was just glowing. She told me that was just the warmup... now they went upstairs, she got tied up, and they had more foreplay then hot monkey sex. She usually expected three or four more orgasms at least (although no more squirters) before they were done. They invited me up, but said I'd have to participate... no just watching in the bedroom! I was very tempted, but I said no... this time. So I left, went home, and masturbated. LOL... really, it was incredibly hot! They've only been together a few years, but the level of intimacy they have together is incredible. I never knew that it could really be that good between two people, but there it was, right in front of me. If this is what it's all about, then I know what I want! So, anyone out there capable of doing that to me?

Well, if all goes as planned, I should be going to my GF's house tonight to watch a "scene" between her and her BF. They've been together for a couple of years and she's been "collared" by him which, to them, is even deeper than marriage. Anyway, they said I could come over and just sort of watch, participating as much or as little as I wanted. So I'm sort of anxious... I hope I won't be creeped out or anything.

OOOooooo... I have admirers... I guess that's a cool thing, right?

Came online today to find this featured profile: "I am looking for slaves that are willing to be bred. By myself or any other men that I choose for you" Well, lemme know how this breeding program works out for you.

After having talked to a few decent people here, I know that I am interested in something called "shibari" as well as being a "service oriented submissive." Oh, and while I do indeed want to be tied up and forced to behave like a slut for the right Dominant, treating me as such right out of the gate is a sure way to get on my blocked list. Really, I masturbate to the idea of having my hands tied behind me and being forced to suck cock after cock while I am being repeatedly fucked. I always figured that this was a pretty typical guy fantasy as well, but it doesn't seem to be.

Edited my mail settings so that any mail from out of state or from someone over 40 will automatically be sent to the trash. Since nobody seems to be able to follow instructions. Guess what? You are NOT the exception to my rule, asshole! I wanted to be nice, but I guess to most people here submissive = doormat.

I actually received this message today: "I will make you a whore dog and gang bang slut... you will have your three holes sold at gang bangs... you will be a fuck toy to men, women and of course most importantly to me!!!" I mean... ew. Are there people on here for whom this would be a turn on? Just go away.

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