Hello all, I am very new to this but I have always been submissive. I just recently found out there was a name for people like me and a whole community of others similar. Also that I could have all of these needs meet in a safe and a beautiful way.

I am a student a mother,and a very caring, hard working person. My child is and always will be my first priority! I am an optimist and very easy going. I enjoy life and find beauty in most things.

As of now I am just her to meet new people. I find the most important aspect in making a connection with people is the motives for what they do. For me D/s is about trust, it's natural and beautiful. I want to give somebody all I have to offer, and to know that he will take that and make me all I can be for him. I strive for perfection and I would love to be the perfect girl for the right man. I like having direction, as I like to know exactly what is expected from me. It is vital that someone is interested in me for who I am, NOT what I like. I am an individual, I have opinions and goals and a strong mind. I know what I want in life and that everything takes hard work. I know that I could not be in anything other than a full time, D/s, long term relationship. The different aspects of BDSM mean nothing to me without the mental aspect of it. It all matters where the need to dominate comes from and that it matches with where my need to submit comes from. I would like to find someone who naturally dominates me. Whose personality naturally over powers mine, but who takes that and is constructive with it. Always bettering me, never trying to destroy me. I have been in relationships like this too many times because I was ignorant to this lifestyle and my naturally submissive core. Now that I know I can be completely owned but it can be healthy and productive I will settle for nothing less.

So that's the basics, if you would like get to know me feel free to message me.