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--OK, you want an 'honest' man? Here I am!--

**Note**

I'm no-longer just settling for any1. Nuh-uh. IF yer interested, please read the entire ad. Everything about me is explained in here, in great depth, & detail.

--My Stats--

I'm 32, 5'9" 225 LB, Short blk. Hair; Army Ranger-style/Blk framed glasses/Lightly tanned skin, & I like to dress casually, usually in black. I wear a size 13 shoe, & I walk w/a fast pace, & I'm VERY clean, as in I use an antibacterial s-o-a-p. Do not smell bad, either, or have breath that could knock a vulture off a post, on a s*** farm. Yer a lady, so smell like 1.
In person, I'm very amenable, polite, & understanding, & I'm very easy to talk to. I've been told by many people who've known me for a long time, that I have a very good personality. I have been told by many people that I am a very good listener, as well.

--I'm Safe To Be With--

Along with the fact that I respect women & a woman's feelings, I always practice safe sex. I very much so enjoy a good time thru the use of mutual, sensual touching. It's safe, & it's a lot of fun. I LOVE a lady's bare feet. I think it's extremely erotic, & it's a real turn on for me. I hope ya don't mind that. Please excuse my asking u this, but could u please email me some PICS of yer bare feet, if u have any available? If not, it's all good. I'm no yuppie, & I'm not fancy. NO gold diggers. OK? I'm in the blue-collar working class, & I'm not some "sugar-daddy." I'll hold the door for you, & I respect women & a women's feelings, but I am not "rich," & I'm not 'wealthy.' Nowhere near that. Chances are that you have a lot more financial maneuverability than I do. I DON'T CARE. I'm not after yer money. I'm after yer personality, & what you can offer me, in the way of a decent relationship. No more, no less.

--My Favorite Music--

70's love songs & 80's techno really takes the cake with me. I love all that stuff, & have many of the 70's & 80's music on cassette tape which I am always listening to. Lol I'd say more than any music, I'm normally always listening to the hard rock'n 80's! Prince is one of my favorite talented artists, along with MJ before the 'bacon patrol' found his little shrine to young boys in his estate. Lol

--My Favorite TV Shows--

"All In The Family," "Starsky & Hutch," "The Banana Split Gang," "Green Acres," "G-Force," "Threes Company," "The Jeffersons," "Colombo," "OZ," "In Search Of," "The Bloodhound Gang, & The After School Special, which always came on TV after school between 3 & 4:P.M.

--My Favorite Movies--

"The Day After," "Twilight Zone," "Star Wars," "Close Encounters of the Third Kind," "Marathon Man," "Papillon," "The Godfather," "Super Fuzz," "Flash Gordon," "Crash Of Flight 401," "The Ghost Of Flight 401," "The President's Plane Is Missing," "Fatherland," "A Bridge Too Far," "The Longest Day," "The Last Days of Patton," "Patton," "Oath Of Office," "The Igor Sanction," "Magnum Force," "Dirty Harry," "Unforgiven," "Tightrope," "Heartbreak Ridge," "Hamburger Hill," "Platoon," "Lethal Weapon," "Lethal Weapon II," "Rocky," "Action Jackson," "The Cannonball Run I & II," "Smokey & The Bandit I & II," "Hooper," "Stroker Ace," & "The Longest Yard"

--My Favorite Activities--

I love going out mountain bilking, taking long walks, going out to the movies at times, & I am self-taught in the area of Theoretical Commercial Aerodynamics. Although I have not yet gone for a degree as is what is needed for me to land my desired field of choice, I am extremely good at what I do, because I practice all the time. I love to draw. I am also a good painter. I am very artistic, & it helps me to deal w/life's every day annoyances & setbacks. It relaxes me a great deal, & is very good therapy.

My favorite game is one I use on the family PC, called: "Flight Sim 2002 Pro Addition," & "FS 2004 - Century Of Flight." It's a software program that is primarily designed for Airline Pilots to practice on, but is available for the general public. The types of aircraft that I routinely fly on the simulator is the: Concorde, Boeing 727-200, 737-200, -300,-400, all the way up to the -800 series, 747-400, 757-200, 767-200, -300, & -400 ER variants, 777-200, & -300 variants, The Airbus A380-800, The McDonnell Douglas DC-9-50, The McDonnell Douglas MD-80, DC-10 series, MD-11, The MD-90, & the BAC-111-400. I've been practicing on these aircraft of months, & I've become very professional at it. Lol I'm very skilled at those different aircraft in all phases of flight, as well as the navigation aspect of it, which took me a few years to get right, thru much practice.

As a matter of fact, I've earned my Private Pilot's certificate off the Simulator, as well as my Instrument Rating! It is the coolest thing you've ever seen in yer life ... sometime, I'll have to show you this amazing software program. I swear; it'll blow yer mind. It's the most realistic game, ever.

--The Weight/Self Esteem Issue--

If yer 300-400 LB, stop eating the wrong foods, hon. Drop the bonbons, & pick up the broccoli. Be for real. I have no desire to stare at you sitting on the couch, eating a whole 1/2 gallon of ice cream, if your weight is off the wall. I'm already living w/some1 who does that, & it absolutely disgusts me. I want you to give a shyte about yerself, hon. NO fatty garbage. NO thick cream sauces. NO straight carby/sugar foods. Yer body doesn't need that. I have a slight weight problem, but I try damn hard to keep it under control. I'm not gonna jack up yer self-worth every day of our dating life. It's too hard, & I don't have the spare emotional energy, to do so. U don't either in the reverse, so let's be for real, OK? I have enough problems to deal w/. If your self worth is that beat to hell, then that means you need professional psychiatric help. I'm not look'n for some 'Lizzy Borden' type. Have it together physically - (weight-wise), & mentally.

--My Residence--

I currently reside in Lancaster, PA, USA, on Wabank St.

**My present living situation. READ THOROUGHLY**

In 10/2004, after 10 months in the relationship, I was invited at the behest of my now 'X' g/f & her parents, to move in to their house in the Lancaster, PA area, from where I used to live, in Northern, NJ. It has not worked out as originally anticipated by the 2 of us, & we've decided to remain on friendly terms, at her & her parent's house. For obvious reasons, I'll be unable to invite u over here. U & I will therefore have to meet elsewhere, to begin a meaningful relationship. I want a roof over my head, so we will do it this way. NO, I do not sleep in the same bed as my 'X.' I have my own room upstairs, in their house. Our relationship is strictly scrapped, unrepairable & OVER, romantically. When I am eventually able to amass proper funds to move out of this nightmare, then u & I will celebrate(!) **Keep in mind, that just as u'd expect me to be understanding towards yer situation in the reverse, please be understanding towards mine. It's only fair, & I'll accept no less than that.**

--My Occupation--

I'm currently w/a 'temp' agency which finds folks jobs, whenever there are jobs available. It's better than nothing, so don't knock it. I plan on going back to school to learn a trade in the computer field, or in drafting. That's why I'm after short term -- p/t positions, so I can fit in my schooling.

--ISO--

SwF 21-35 from either PA, NJ, DE, or NY. (Other states are negotiable.) 140 - 225 LB. Any color hair, Any eye color. You'll be btwn. 4' - 6'6" tall, Clean, & D&D-free, Friendly, Passionate, Some1 w/good manners, some1 w/a kind & welcoming attitude. NO brag'n bout' yer male friend(s), NO teenagers, & NO psychotic/chronically neurose types, will not cut the mustard. It's obnoxious. Be stable, & in control.

--I'll Stand By You When You Feel Ill--

I don't mind if you're under the care of a psychiatric professional, but ... Just 1 note on meds, if yer on any of the heavy stuff: You may wanna consider carefully tapering off of the meds at some point, & beginning a healthy diet filled with herbs, as it will help your condition improve, & you won't get the side effects which are so common to psychotropic meds, & besides that, they're known to be damaging to the liver.

If you're into kissing, please understand that your gums cannot be bleeding. NO chronic gingival problems, Hon ... I'm not into women who refuse to brush their teeth. Y? I'll tell you: It poses a serious risk factor in the spreading of diseases, (orally). I'll tell you right now; if we meet up, & your breath smells like a pile'a shyte, & I see dark yellow/gunky teeth in yer gab, I'll walk away quick. I mean that. BE CLEAN. Wash yerself. Brush yer teeth. Take good care of yerself.
**I am not looking for a strictly "platonic" relationship. I'm a 32 year old adult male who recquires the whole package. No strictly "just buddies." I'm after the whole package, meaning yer good attitude, yer soft, sexy bare feet, & mutual, sensual touching.**

--Foreigners/Location--

You will not be here on a "temporary VISA." You will be a legal citizen of the USA, like I am. NO exceptions. If you contact me from any foreign country, I will absolutely ignore, & block you. BE FOR REAL. Find some1 in yer own country. NO FOREIGNERS. U'll either be from PA, DE, NY, -or- NJ ONLY. Other states in the USA, are negotiable. Send me an email, so we could discuss that further, if you live 150 miles farther than my zip code, of 17603.

I do a lot of mountain biking & I like to go hiking at times. I do not drive a big fancy car, because I'm not in that income bracket -- Not every1 is. I put all my faith in trains & a lousy bus system, which's a complete inconvenient joke.

I'm not looking for some uncompassionate snake with icewater coursing through her frozen veins. Be nice, treat me nicely as you'll gladly be dealt w/, in the same fashion. I'm a gentle guy, with a good heart, & I will be treated like I am, thank you.

--Occupational No-Nos--

NO therapists/psychiatric counselors. 'Y,' u ask? I'll tell you: I'm not look'n for some1 in that field to manipulate me to "open up" like a typical patient, only to be studied, & then dumped. Been there, done that. No good. If I want a psychiatric counselor, I'll seek a mental healthcare professional, in a phone book.

--Polite 'IMing'--

Ya don't ever have to worry about me being some sex-crazed 'IMer.' Lol I'm polite, in IMs, as well as in person, hon. I'm not a spammer, & I do not crave "naked" PICS from women in IMs, or through emails. I ask that you're as polite. I'm not into women who arrogantly offline while in an active IM. There's nothing more obnoxious to me than that while talking to a prospective new partner in an IM. No good. Getting bumped off is 1 thing, but hopping off purposely is another, w/out a polite closure. Be polite, hon. NO personal questions, please. It's considered RUDE to ask people what their faith is, especially if you do not know them, & that goes the same in IMs, as well. I find it to be extremely obnoxious, intrusive, for the pushy types who dislike other faiths, it's fascist. IF & when I'm comfortable, I will talk about my faith w/you, when I bring it up. That's not up for "debate," IM or no IM. If you don't like getting sexually harassed in an IM, than in my view, it's on the same scale, as needling a new partner about his faith, in an IM. Think about it. BE POLITE.

--Contacting Protocol--

I would appreciate that if in the event you'd like to contact me, PLEASE REMEMBER TO LEAVE ME YER EMAIL ADDY, so I'm able to get back to u.