nathaliesub

Dear friends, experiencing dark times in my life, sorry i have been absent... i love you x

OMG i'm in love! Michelle Obama was in Oxford yesterday dishing out inspiration and hugs to schoolgirls (i think i can still get into my uniform...)

i have decided to write to her in the spirit of restitution and reparation and offer to be her slave; i think the official title is 'The First Lady's ginger slut'

Am i the only sub who thinks that she's the ultimate Domme?

Well, i have turned 36... yikes! and thank you all the sweet but possibly short sighted folk that have said i don't look my age x

Here is my birthday message to the (BDSM) nation... ahem!

Whilst i am aware of the received wisdom that says a submissive is actually in control in the D/s dynamic, i have to admit that i have thought long and hard about this and don't necessarily agree. Okay, i am acutely sensitive of the fact that this isn't anything other than a subjective and frankly insupportable personal assumption, but i have to say that i honestly believe that i am about as far from being in control as i could possibly be!

What i genuinely want from my relationship is to be told what to do, where to be, how to think, when to scream, when to cum, what to wear, how to plead, who's piss to drink and how enthusiastically to say thank you Miss... or maybe Daddy...

Am i missing something, should i be in control... ?

Answers on a postcard...

The people on this site get quite a bad press generally and whilst much of the time it is richly deserved, there are people here who are, well, just lovely! and if you care to look beneath the surface you find that there are absolute gems here of all genders and orientation and i have found also to my great pleasure a huge amount of wisdom and kindness, so thank you all! X

i'm back!

Had a lovely few days in NYC and got back just in time for the Royal Wedding. Now, i have to say i'm not a Royalist by any means, but i did get pulled in by the whole occasion and once i sat in front of the telly on hat-watch, well i was hooked! i don't find her very attractive personally, but i have to admit she is photogenic and her wedding dress and the one she wore for the party in the evening... i would kill my mother for!!!

Good morning all my lovely chums, i'm away for a short break to, i know not where (Surprise yummy!) So if i don't get back to you right away i promise i'm not ignoring you X

Back in a couple of days X

Okay, i reckon i'm quite a nice person and so i'm going to reward myself with a bit of a rant!

i'm a very open person, i like chatting with different people on this site and i have made some lovely new chums. my profile makes it abundantly clear where my particular areas of interest lie and that i am not really interested in men and certainly have no desire to be dominated by them.

With alarming regularity men feel the need to send me a message, usually there is a lovely compliment involved, i write back and say thank you. Their next message is usually an invitation to webcam and when i politely refuse, they invariably write back and call me a man!

Now, do they really think i'm a man, or is that just the most damning and let's face it, unoriginal insult that people use round here? Do they honestly think that getting my tits out on screen or fingering myself while they wank themselves silly in some smelly darkened bedroom is why i am on here?

i am an intelligent, highly cultured, intellectual, well read woman, i am a PhD! The fact that i have a profile here hasn't changed me into a moron, i just happen to have certain sexual needs that are not entirely available in a mainstream vanilla setting.

Okay, so lots of people on here aren't who they say they are, so what? Doesn't mean they're not interesting or have nothing to say, i'm willing to bet i'd rather spend time with a man who pretends to be a woman, than any of the idiots on here who want to look at my breasts!

One more thing! (Don't worry, nearly finished)  rather than question the veracity of all the women on this site, maybe we should turn our attention on all the guys who claim to be 'experienced Doms' i've been in this scene since i was 16, nearly 20 years and i have met quite a few Doms and i reckon i can spot a real one, not someone who spends too much time in front of a computer screen thinking that women are going to let them gawp at her at the drop of a hat!

Thank you x

So, i have to say, people can be really rude round here! Although to be fair, no women have been rude and no submissives of any gender have been rude.

It appears that you can be accused of such things as being a 'fake' if you don't respond in the right way to certain dominant males, despite the fact that your profile, almost apologetically, quite clearly states that you don't submit to men.

It is rather like it was at school when a boy came up to ask you out and you indicated that you were not interested, he would tell all his friends and anyone else in earshot that you were gay! Which in my own case was actually true

So chaps, please don't be offended, but i have no real interest in being dominated by you, it's nothing personal, it's just the way it is!

On the other hand there are some very nice people here and i have met one Mistress in particular who has captured my heart.

So Go Collarme!!!