What am I looking for? It might be easier to ask me personally than to expect an answer on here.

I usually am attracted to and connect with people who are intelligent and congnizant. Mental attraction is stronger and lasts longer than a physical one.

I have a moderate amount of experience with kinky stuff - it all occured behind closed doors in a previous time of my life. Now, I find myself thinking about it often, and struggle with the reality of doing it.