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Female Submissive, 24, Kansas CIty, Missouri
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Female Submissive, 49
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About Nancee908
I always read about D/s contracts. I am a submissive "s" not a slave "s". That means that I have a mind and opinion and as you will read, I have no issues in conveying anything in verbal or written form. Spelling and grammatical errors are a pet peeve.......... I do not have extensive hands on BDSM knowledge. Most I have learned while self diagnosing, reading through psychological disorders and the BDSM lifestyle. I guess as one searches for their genetic background, I sought out my mental background. And now I am here with a better understanding of me and what I need not want. Also deserve as I am a good person. I just have baggage but if I didn't, I wouldn't be who I am sexually. I am comfortable in my own skin......... The man I am seeking doesn't have to be a daddy figure. Age isn't necessarily an issue though I have found older men to be much more experienced and "better fucks". What I thrive on is a man who can be that male authority figure in my life. Save me from myself at times. High intelligence is not the same as common sense. I need a man who is intimidating but not a bully. Someone who can whisper in my ear and make me tremble. The cum with adrenaline flowing through my body caused by fear is intense. It's what I live for sexually. Make me scream, beg for mercy, and cry. I will love it......... I enjoy forced orgasm. My solo record is higher than a partner record. Just sayin'. I can make myself squirt but I would much rather you do it. I like whips. I own a few. Riding crops as well. I enjoy taking them to get togethers with friends then randomly playing but it's not my role. I would consider trying it if I were told but I know my place. Face south, ass north as Lil Wayne said. I am fond of vibrators. I think of fucking myself with produce every time I am in the grocery store. She seems to know few limits. If done correctly, slowly over time, the vaginal walls thin and expand. It makes fisting possible without making a woman loose. I enjoy that as well but do not have much experience with it. Slap me across any cheek and I will love it. Hair pulling makes me scream out differently? Also like. And of course none of that would be complete without a little light choking to put the fear of God into me. Love fear and intimidation with no real danger. Safe and sane gentlemen. I have read on collared subs and I am interested at least in learning more - understanding......... I am not really interested in worshiping you, being caned, placed in a cage, or humiliated extensively. Again I am a submissive not a slave. Anal will have to be a long negotiation. The only time I ask for control during sex is while performing oral. Don't touch me or I will stop. No scat, no vomit, no piss, no spitting. It's just unsanitary. (I'm a bit of a germophobe.) No cumming above my shoulders. Not for now anyways. We will make that a soft limit......... I am a single mother and work two jobs. Understand that I am not looking for a live-in situation with a man I don't know. I would like someone looking for a companion who is somewhat local and lives alone. Obviously, I will not be hosting. For now you would be my dirty little secret and in time, I would introduce you into my "circle of trust". If this is not what you are seeking, don't waste my time......... I can no longer have children. It is a choice I am happy with.. If you have part-time kids I would not be opposed or teenage live-ins. I am not looking to be a mother to someone else's younger child. I have 9 more years left on my sentence. I'm not looking to add more. This would probably be a good time to mention that I have an odd sense of humor and lack a filter. I am crude an offensive. The people who like me generally love me. I'm not for everyone........ You do not have to be rich as I am not seeking financial assistance. In fact, I have a lot of pride so I really have no interest in help. I'm doggy paddling my way through, staying afloat. I don't want someone who is unemployed either. I had a husband who was professionally unstable but perfect in every other way. Emphasis on HAD. Two actually. So while I don't want your money, be stable. Have your own place. A car. Decent clothes. I don't think it's too much to ask........ 420 is ok. Other drugs are okay if they do not negatively impact your life and you do not expect me to partake with you. I smoke a pack a day and drink socially. I am not interested in someone who finds their self intoxicated more than 2-3 nights a week. Neither am I interested in changing my habits for you. If I choose to, it will be for me........ Do not think you will have total control over me. Sexually, my body will be yours. Hopefully my heart as well. My mind is mine. I am a very happy person. I am almost always smiling. I feel good about myself. I know that I am a wonderful mother. I am a loyal friend. And a dependable employee. I don't want for any of that to change. You should be an enhancement to my life as I will be to yours......... When I fall in love, I fall hard. Usually too fast. It's why I try to maintain an emotional disconnect. If you don't want me to be yours, please keep pain towards my heart out of our sadomasochistic play. I am a very sensitive and loving person. Physical pain is perfect. Emotional pain is prohibited......... So far this covers my expectations of a Dom and his acceptance of all aforementioned items. If you can make a contract, why can't I the sub make my own demands? If you are interested in Dominating a beautiful mind, send me a well thought out response and photo. If I feel we might have chemistry, I will respond with mine. Be real. Be a single man or woman. No couples. No fakes. An illusion would not make me happy......... If on the extremely rare chance you are a female, I am still a submissive. If you are a sub or slave, please contemplate your expectations. You should be experienced. Fully shaved. Very clean. I prefer dark hair. Longer is better. You should be HWP as I am too. In a relationship is fine as long as he will not be there, involved, etc......... |
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?Beware, so long as you live, of judging men by their outward appearance.? - Jean de La Fontaine
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"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." - Eleanor Roosevelt |
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?We fall in love because we long to escape from ourselves with someone as beautiful, intelligent, and witty as we are ugly, stupid, and dull. But what if such a perfect being should one day turn around and decide they will love us back? We can only be somewhat shocked-how can they be as wonderful as we had hoped when they have the bad taste to approve of someone like us?? ? Alain de Botton
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