Nakhla

Fundamentally I'm seeking a man with a very controlling personality, who likes to be "the man" in the relationship in all ways. You want to be the leader, you like making the choices for your significant other, you find security in happiness in knowing your man is there to serve and obey you.

I'm twenty-seven, submissive, and wanting a real-time, lasting relationship. I'm not in a rush, but I'm a believer in taking commitment seriously. I'm employed, a non-drinker, non-smoker, and non-drug user. I want build a life with a man, under his command, and devoted to his needs, with very little independence expected or wanted.

I am not perfect nor do I expect you to be. Willingness to try and get back up when things go wrong is far more valuable; to look back in a few years time and find oneself just that bit better, closer to our dreams, and more confident.

You can call it what you like: master, dom, owner; sub, slave, pet, "wife". The words don't matter: you matter. I'm more drawn to traditional types of relationships, so a husband-wife situation of a hundred years ago is a lot more like what I want than the typical loose associations of poly-playmate partners I see in the BDSM community.

I believe shared values hold two people together stronger than shared interests; I believe family, and ties to close friends, are valuable and worth maintaining; love enduring is more important than the excitement of a new affair. I have an enormous reality fetish.

I'm out, and have nothing to hide - but I'm also out OF the gay culture, and find nothing in the Davie Street scene I can relate to. Getting dressed up as Rainbow Brite and having a drunken hook-up is not my idea of a good Friday night. There is so much more to life!

If something resonates with you, write me, even if I'm not what you're seeking - at worst, you've found a friend. If you're seeking Mr. Tonight please don't be offended if I don't respond. Perhaps this site is the wrong place to look for this, but then again, where's good?