NaamahKitten

A sweet Kitten is happiest when she has someone to adore. Currently accepting interest for a D/s LTR.

However, there are qualifications that an Owner or Master should meet. They are very important.

• Know Your Mind - Please know what you want. It seems obvious and easy, but it never is. Know what you are happy with, and I will do my best to make it so. Do not make me an experiment. Putting all of my energy into being something you decide isn't your thing is heartbreaking. And, of course, men who know what they want are quite sexy.

• An LTR is an LTR - Have you seen those posters? "A Kitten is a lifetime commitment." Don't adopt a Kitten unless you are capable of a Long Term Relationship. I don't short-term date; I put everything into being with the one I adore. I don't get into a relationship unless I think it has the potential to last forever. I am pretty upfront about that. Feel special!

• A Kitten is not a Vanilla Creature - I tried being full vanilla; it was a terrible idea. I promised myself to never make that mistake again. I then tried semi-vanilla, at a Sirs request. Nope nope nope, not that either. (See above, 'not an experiment'.) While I am not a slave, I am happiest with protocols, and clear rules. Nice clear boundaries that don't fluctuate with mood. I am very serious about obeying. Nothing makes me happier than performing a Task and winning your smile.

• The Delicate Balance of Sadism - Truthfully, this subject could be a whole post by itself. I'll try to keep it brief. I need a Sadist. Someone who enjoys my pain, smiles at my tears and gets hard when I am scared. Nothing less. But equally importantly is a Sadist who understands that physical or mental (anticipation, fear) pain is welcome, but emotional sadism is over the line. Hurt me, scare me, make me tremble with a look... but never make me feel worthless or unloved, especially as a punishment.

• Affection is a Kittens Food and Drink - Kittens will fall over themselves for pets or cuddles. I will gladly wait at the door for You to arrive, and pour everything into that first hug. Dominance ≠ Aloofness. D/s does not mean there cannot be a Happily Ever After! Cuddles, kisses, and genuine affection are my mana from heaven. I cannot possibly emphasize that enough! I will walk through fire for your sweet touches.

• Honor and Truth - Nothing is more important in a relationship than trust. A Kitten is always truthful (sometimes to a fault); and values highly this trait in others. Your Word is Law - honor it as much as I do! I appreciate someone who understand the importance of being strait with your other half. Much can be forgiven, but not promises broken with a shrug. The same goes for lies or things purposefully withheld; I will never do such to You and would ask the the same in return. I would much rather know something that may make me sad for a moment, than not know something that is important.

• Calm Resolution - Yelling, hitting, or chaining a pet up outside to be alone does not make for a loving bond or good training. It is the same in a relationship. More than anything, I believe that most problems can be solved by sitting down and speaking truthfully and rationally. Storming out, rage quitting, or violence do not fix anything - they just make the other person afraid to speak when something is wrong. Being able to calmly resolve any issues is a must. Even with a submissive and a Dominant, it is critically important that both sides are equal when it comes to happiness.

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Those are the basic, and important, foundations for a relationship.

In addition, there are things that are important to me, that I very much hope to have in common with an Owner or Master, that are important to me in a Long Term Relationship.

• A Love of Nature - I love the outdoors. I like hiking, and prefer to go backpacking every year with a partner. My Owner or Master need not be super active or athletic, but hiking together on occasion would make for a Very Happy Kitten.

• Maturity - My admiration is drawn to those with a higher maturity level. That doesn't mean that I don't love being playful and sweet with my Owner or Master! Just that I respect those with a healthy sense of responsibility, patience, dependability, and seriousness. I've always preferred those older than I, in the 35yr - 45yr range.

• Domestic Things & Serving - I love to serve, and it's a big part of domestic life for me. Being allowed to cook and present dinners, pouring you a drink while on my knees, or waiting at the door for you to come home are important rituals. I prefer to plan my life around an Owner or Master. While living together isn't required, a kitten is happiest when she can see her Owner or Master a majority of the days of the week. A high level of interaction and service is best.

• A Bit of a Prepper - I am a bit of a Prepper. I love DIY projects, survivalism, and off-grid concepts. I own my own rifle. I would love to learn to fish, and intend to hunt. I would be very happy if an Owner or Master shared those interests, or at least was open minded towards them.

• SCA - I vend at various SCA Wars (medieval reenactment) every year. These events are 5 days of camping in the middle of nowhere, dressed the part, with amazing parties after dark. I would love to share this experience with an Owner or Master!

• Vending - I own Paleopunk Pro, a handcrafted fetish gear business. An Owner or Master should understand this and be professional when attending events with me where I am working. Unless it is discussed that You would be managing my business while I focus on crafting, I will be making the final decisions regarding work and vending. As well, while I vend I am in 'professional mode' and submission cannot take prescience during these times. But I would love to share Your company at vending events, and would be a happy Kitten if You took interest in it!

• Projects - I am always up to a new project! From a new flogger design to hydroponics to... anything I can think of. I am very creative and love implementing new ideas. I enjoy being able to bounce ideas off of the person I am with, and would hope that They would encourage my enthusiasm. I love being able to present new designs to You for Your opinion, and would be very happy if You were to take an interest!

I am currently looking for a Sadist and Master.

I am looking for a dominant, sadistic male individual who is interested in various fetishes combined with rough sex. I don't do s/m play without sexual content; my interest in pain increases the more I am aroused.

Please send me a PM to inquire; this is not a thread to reply on.

The three most important rules:

• 1. - BE CLEAN! I would think this is an obvious request, but apparently some people just don't get it. Or don't care, in which case.... shoo. I am clean, and I need to stay so if I intend to continue this lifestyle.

• 2. - Look within my age range (25-35), and be in decent shape. I know some people look a lot younger - and some a lot older - than they are, so I have no strict age limits, but I would prefer that you look within this range as a personal preference. I don't ask that my play partners have the body of a god, but please don't be obese. A few extra pounds is fine. Also, I prefer caucasian, like myself; just a preference.

• 3. - Don't creep me out. This one is the hardest of all, because for some reason, random people (who are perfectly nice!).... make me nervous. There is usually no specific reason, but there it is. This is the biggest reason that I turn people down, that otherwise fit my type. I sincerely apologize, but once I feel that way, there's nothing to be done. No amount of being nice to me will change this. Please don't take it personally.

Now, on to other things.

Things You Should Know -

I don't condone cheating. If you have a girlfriend/fiancée/wife (applies to play partners only, I don't do poly), she needs to be consenting; otherwise, it's a no-go. I don't have to be buddy-buddy with her - in fact, I prefer to remain separate from S/Os - but I can't play with someone who's girl is unsure of the situation, or has jealousy issues. I don't want to find out after the first session that there will be drama. If there is, I will have to politely decline a repeat, and that's no fun for either of us.

Also, I do not play with couples; though I am bi/heteroflexable, I don't feel comfortable with an attached man and woman - having a preference of one over the other can easily create drama, which I avoid. I understand that you may be open/poly/etc, but it is a personal decision that I've made.

Please be open to hosting - at least at first. I am a female living by myself, and I am uncomfortable bringing people who I am not 100% used to into my home. I'm sure that's understandable.

You must be able to pick me up. I don't drive, due to the absence of depth perception. I can find a ride every once in a while, but every time, no - especially if you don't live in east county.

I'm shy at first, in person. That doesn't mean that I don't want to jump your bones. Let me warm up to you, and we are all good!

I generally ask that you be experienced in the Dominant role. However, if you are just realizing your dominant or sadistic tenancies, I may make an exception, and see how things go. I do love playing with someone who has new-found sadistic or dominant tenancies - and the darker their interests, the more they turn me on. Just don't both be new, and act like you know everything; unearned arrogance is a turn-off. However, if you are generally vanilla with a couple light kinks, please move on.

Fetishes -

I have enough fetishes that it would be unreasonable to ask someone to share them all. However, there are a few basic key fetishes that I require for good sex.

• Roughness. I like to be pinned down, and fucked hard. I may struggle, and I want to be dominated, physically and mentally. I like to be challenged, but don't hurt me overly much just to prove your point.

• Confidence. Not really a fetish, but still a must. Give me that arrogant, sadistic smirk, and I will whimper for you.

• Neck Biting, Hair Pulling, or Choking. Some people have issues with one or the other, so I understand if you can't do all of them; but please, at least do one. Two is better, and all three will make me a very, very happy Kitten.

• Doggy Style Sex. It is my absolutely favorite position. Missionary is good, and I flat dislike cowgirl. It's all about all fours. ^-^

Fetishes that aren't required, but are a big plus! -

• Kitten Play. Obviously, I am a kitten. It's in my name, it's in my speech (yes, I mew regularly), and I occasionally wear my tail. No, I'm not a furry. But I love my kitten play, and having a Dominant that gets off to it makes me happy. Also, horny.

• Age Play. Equally important as Kitten Play, maybe more so. I very much like playing innocent, and if you can play on that... ^-^

• Being pinned down. The less I can move, the more I want it. Pin my wrists, hold me down... please!

• Talking Dirty. It gets me hot and bothered. Anything from the basic "you like that, don't you?" and up. Tell me that I'm your little whore. Force me to admit what I like or want. It's humiliating, and gets me wet. Oh, and few pleasured noises from Dominant go a long way.

• Bondage and Blindfolding. Nothing so elaborate as shibari is asked for; even a pair of cuffs attached to the headboard will do. Blindfolding is basic sensory deprivation - it makes me feel helpless and vulnerable, and that's wonderful prep for a great time.

• Orgasm Denial. Make me whimper, make me beg for it. It just makes me hotter for you.

• Animalistic Domination. Growling, biting, sniffing hair, etc. I may be a Kitten, but if my Dominant were to have a feral side, it would be growly... or something akin to it. Pin me down and growl in my ear, and I'm sure to be dripping wet.

• Rape Play. This goes hand-in-hand with roughness, but adds a bit of menace. Throw in a threatening object (knife, gun, etc), and it's a date. If I am a bit genuinely scared.... well, alls the better. Perhaps even give it a theme (psycho? military? be creative!).

• Darkness. Whether it's barely-there moonlight or pitch black, it's wonderful.

• Tickling. Not too much - but get me writhing while being Dominant, and I will love it. Tickling makes me clench around you, and light, barely-there tickles turn me on ever so much...

• Cunnilingus. This will tear the biggest, hardest orgasm from my body, if you are patient. My clit is highly sensitive, so my favorite spot is somewhere right under it. I wouldn't recommend orgasm denial during this, unless you want to start all over again. However, I will be soaking wet, tight as can be, and desperately begging you to fuck me hard after one of these. If you finish me off with your tongue, you will be a god.

• Anal Play. This is one of my major erotic zones. Gentle pressure on that spot, a single well-slicked finger, or even an anal toy during sex will make me moan (especially if it's vibrating).

Now, on to the Fuck No list -

• Spit. Oh dear god, do not spit in my mouth, drool on me, or leave otherwise cooling pools of saliva on my skin. /shudder

• Needles. Do not want.

• Piss, anywhere near my face. No no no. I may bend for other areas. Maybe.

• Anything having to do with fecal matter. Nope. Not even once.

My Body

Now, everyone's body is different. Some people's turn-on spots are different than others, and some people just don't like being touched in some places. So, about me.

• As I mentioned above, my skin tears easily. Lube is an amazing thing and should be used! I love that slick feel of a well-oiled cock...

• I'm not too big of a fan of people touching my stomach. That's just me.

• I'm ticklish. Very, very ticklish. So if I giggle while you are groping me, you know why. Some tickling is nice, as mentioned above. But don't touch my paws (feet) in any way that will tickle.

• I absolutely melt when my neck is played with. Zero to horny in seconds. Light touches there make me shiver, hot breath or kisses make me wet, and a rough hand around my neck makes me writhe.

• I love having my hair pulled. But please do it right - grab a bunch, and close to the scalp lower on the head, etc. Just a tiny bit of hair, or halfway down, is just owie. In a bad way. Other than that, I'm not a fan of having fingers run through it, or etc.

• I have a very (very!) sensitive clit. Really. You have no idea. So please, please, no button mashing! The lightest of touches, with fingers or tongue, are enough to set me writhing. A well-slicked finger ghosting touches over it for a few minutes will make me cum. Circular motions around it are just perfect. Lube is a wonderful sensation there, don't discount it! The harder the touch, the less pleasure I am getting. Yes, I will twitch more, but I won't be having fun - it's just an overload, and not pleasure. Trust me. If you want to touch rougher, go for the area between the clit and my entrance - it brings me almost as much pleasure as the clit itself, and you don't have to hold back as much. If I ask you go to lighter, or push at your hand so you don't touch as hard - listen! Those who don't, probably won't be invited back!

• My nipples are very sensitive as well. Not so much as my clit, of course! But no biting too rough, please, or hard suction. Once again, gentle there.... rough everywhere else. ^-^

Safe Words -

I use the basic colors - Red for stop, Yellow for lighten up. However, other reactions are more basic to me, and I would ask that you acknowledge them. If something really hurts, or something was done that I just flat out don't like, I will likely hiss at you. As well, if something hurts but isn't quite enough for a full stop - and I'd like it a bit lighter - a loud, sharp 'Eep!!' will be voiced.

If you would like to play with me (and have actually read all of this!), then send me a message. Please include why you would like to become my play partner, and what fetishes match mine. If your profile doesn't have at least a face shot with basic info, I will likely have to turn you down.