Last reviewed for content and refreshed on: 3January2014
Hello My Dear, Thank you for visiting. I have quite a bit to say, so make yourself comfortable...
Allow me to begin by stating that IF you are not ALREADY a resident of whatever state, in America, you have listed in your profile, do not bother sending me any notes or responding to anything I may have sent you. I expect to have a relationship based 100% on HONESTY. If you start by deceiving me you have already proved yourself untrustworthy. I cannot abide, nor will I tolerate deceitful Women. I neither offer nor accept lies. If I find you have lied to me I will
immediately break contact with you, forever. If you ever find that I have, I encourage you to do the same.
Secondly, if you find yourself too timid to initiate contact, I encourage you to add me to your "favorites." If I am interested, I will initiate contact.
What I seek is far from conventional, even within the broad outlines of a lifestyle such as this. I am looking for a VERY submissive, submissive woman; a female slave; or, possibly some younger Lady interested in living out her "Daddy" complex. In any event, you should be between 25 and 50 ("Soft" limits as I am much more interested in your mentality than your age). You may be with or without children; either is acceptable to me, as long as you understand that if you DO have children, our "lifestyle" will be completely invisible to any minors you may have in or visiting your household. This should not come as a surprise to you. You should also be willing to relocate eventually, especially if you are currently living outside of the Metropolitan DC area. ***Relocation will only happen once we have spent a considerable amount of time establishing mutual trust, and have achieved some comfort level with; as well as a comfortable level of understanding each other.***
I could go into details, but conversations ARE important to me. I would like to get to know you, slowly, and methodically, covering a period of many, many months and many, many visits and outings.
1. A few emails, to establish contact, leading to…
2. Phone calls, to get to know each other, and…
3. Eventually, we will meet, to discuss face-to-face what our individual expectations are; and to see if we feel we will be physically compatible.
Because, if this is to work as it should, for the long term (and, I am looking for a long-term, eventual live-in sub/slave), we will need to find each other physically AND intellectually attractive, do you not agree? Neither of us, I am sure, wants to spend time interacting with an overweight, fraggle-faced moroon, am I right? I will come to visit YOU, so, IF you have problems with hosting a *vanilla* meet&greet you should state this up front.
Also:
If you are someone who NEEDS to participate in communal events, munches, or D/s get-togethers... I will pass. I am here looking for someone to have a PRIVATE, Long-Term D/s Relationship with. Not live out some casual, public fantasy. If you NEED public attention to validate your status you do not NEED me.
If you NEED physical ABuse, for you to feel wanted/needed, I am not your Dom. I, of course, reserve the right to visit pain, humiliation, and corporal punishment as a part of our lifestyle; if I feel it will accentuate my point or add to my enjoyment, or yours. (Rest assured that I will, when *I* feel the want or need.) Nevertheless, that will primarily be a private occurrence. I believe public displays should be rare and special, for us both.
I am not into blood-sport. Nor will I ever; or will I ever allow anyone else to visit scat or Pedophilic activities upon you. If you have limits beyond these, you should make them known upfront. NO SURPRISES!!!
Although I may *want* to, I should not NEED to hurt or humiliate you, publicly or otherwise, to obtain your obedience/subservience. If we have properly established a sense of trust and respect with and for each other, in our respective roles, there will be no need for this sort of nonsense. If I ever feel as though I must do so, out of ANGER, You have failed me, and, much more importantly, I have failed you!
This is about much more than just sex. If all you want is a sex partner; someone to explore your occasional need for kinky coitus, we will not be compatible. However, if you are looking for an intellectual life-partner with a vivid imagination, sadistic tendencies, a definitive outlook on life, and how He EXPECTS things to be; as well as a desire to see your needs met, TOO, who happens to be DOM, well...
I have taken the time to include a face pic, within my profile. If you are too shy, nervous, or self-protective to do the same, at least do me the courtesy of including one if/when we begin email correspondence. I do understand your concerns. They are well founded, as you see them. I do not wish to pull you out of your comfort-zone, however, if I cannot *see* who I am corresponding with, I *see* no need to correspond with you. Once I share my email address with you, if you would be so kind as to include the word "BlackCherry" in the subject-line of your first email to me I will be able to pick it out of the spam folder. If you have read this far you may also have noticed that I took a considerable amount of time to ensure that my profile is easily read (albeit a long read), with proper punctuation, grammar, and understandable syntax. If you lack the ability to type in complete sentences and/or cannot spell or use spell-check, you are useless, to me. I need a Woman who can hold her own in professional as well as social environments. I need a Woman capable of complimenting MY presence, simply by HER presence. I need a Woman with a brain that is well-exercised and nimble. This is NOT just about sex, for me. This is about creating a now, and a future we can both enjoy and of which we can be proud. If you expect ANYthing less perhaps you should go find one of the many toy-Doms available on here. Someone interested in elevating their self-worth by demeaning and degrading you. That is not me. I have no need to elevate my worth by propping it upon your back. I am in search of a LIFE-mate, not a play-mate, not a toy; a Woman.
One last thing, I am not here to judge anybody else’s choices, nor do I care one wit about what you think about mine. I am primarily interested in interacting with a Woman of Color. Any color is fine, as long as there is SOME color present. I make no excuses or qualifications for my preference, it is after all MY preference. None of you know me well enough to attach any labels to me or my preference, so please don't display your ignorance by attempting to do so. If you do not feel we would be compatible, simply ignore me and I will go away. If you do not agree with MY motives or rationale and feel compelled to tell me so, rest assured I will most certainly ignore you. I have no need to engage you in witty repartee or attempt to convince you that my predilections are superior, because they are not. They are simply MINE! Should you happen to be other than a Woman of Color, and find my message intriguing, I do still encourage you to reach out. Preferences do not preclude other choices, after all.
***I am NOT a 420-friendly Dom***
***I AM an Alcohol-FREE Dom***
***Social/sexual diseases are similarly unwelcome by this Dom***
***If you are too shy to initiate contact, simply add me to your favorites and, if I am interested, I will contact you***
May you find your hearts' deepest desire...
(To the Women of COLOR: There is a song, by Goodie-Mob, called "Beautiful Skin." If you are interested in communicating with me YOU should find and listen to it. It will give you some small insight into MY views of Women, as well as how I intend to relate to YOU.)
