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About n4eira
Nice to meet you,
I'm rather new to all of this but I am also excited to find out more about myself. I have met some really great people that are in the lifestyle and they have been showing me the ropes both indirectly and directly. But of course I am always on the lookout for more people to meet and to explore more things.
I am still learning about myself and what I want from the lifestyle. If you want to know some of the things that I am into please don't hesitate to ask me as I am still exploring and I know very little myself. I am always on the look out to try new things and grow into a better more complete person. In regards to sub vs. Dom I guess if I had to label myself right now I would say I am a switch with a strong sub streak. I believe that there is more to me than just being that but as for what that entails I look forward to finding that out. But for the record I think that labels cause more problems than they are worth most of the time, don’t get me wrong I understand why they exist I just think people put way too much importance on them and people are definitely way more complex than one label could ever say about them.
Now for a few things about me that don’t deal with kink. I am a bit of a nerd/geek. I enjoy reading books, DnD, playing video and board games, and watching movies. I’m not a big partier or drinker. Don’t get me wrong I enjoy a good party and drinking can be fun as well I just don’t really feel the need to do it all that much. I don’t have a problem with drugs, as long as the person can control their high; I just never felt that they are for me. I enjoy dancing; I wouldn’t say that I’m good at it but it’s fun. I have had two relationships that have lasted over a year, the rest were all rather short lived. I am currently going to school and working part time. I am still living at home; I’m looking to change that so if you know of any cheap places please give me a heads up.
I know that I seem unsure about a lot of things. But the fact of the matter is that I am just new to the lifestyle and I don’t want to make assumptions about how I will fit into all of this. If there is anything at all that you want to know about me in particular or in general please ask. I am a rather open person, it is rather hard to offend me and I am not judgmental. I also rather enjoy helping others and I’m a great listener. I have a bit of a memory problem; it’s something that I am trying to improve, so I apologize in advance if I forget anything. And if you find any spelling or grammatical errors please let me know so I can fix them as it is not my strongest talent.
I hope to hear from you soon. |
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