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About N10City
I am a ruff aggressive naturally hairy athletic bb submissive looking to get connected to some training oriented Dominant men who enjoy sweaty enthusiasm from their playboy's. POZitively fun! Alienist, PhD, cum perve (nasty AND overeducated) Sexually open to most anything, but prefer non-vanilla, mostly aggressive, sweaty fun; pluses (but not required): I get into anything milder from anon, ass pounding muscle on muscle, blindfold/hoods, restraints /bondage, to wilder play such as kidnap/abduction, date rape, hypnosis, forced sex, forced submission, fight club/wrestling, paddling/flogging, among other things. and it goes without saying that I really enjoy finding out what the man who I am servicing is interested in doing, and being reinforced to do that very well. Playing with gear on is awesome, leather or jock. I generally like to be taught new tricks , but teaching them can be equally awesome. If you haven't done something, don't knock it. I've heard so many times, "I don't do blindfolds. I want something more connected." Blindfolds require an incredible exchange of trust and enhance the connectedness, I find. And when meeting someone for the first time, it can be incredible to take out the dominant two senses, vision and hearing, and focus the exploration through touch, smell, taste. Those "lesser" senses kick in double time and can make an otherwise ordinary experience into an extraordinary one. Bondage and all the other stuff, generally the same thing-- the exchange of trust and the restriction of some of the senses or intensification of others really change the connectedness in a positive way. And I like to connect. Bearing my soul and body to another man is one of the greatest gifts I feel that I have been given in this earth bound body. I will always respect you. I expect that you will treat me the same way. "Consistently undetectable viral load" for 10 years. Google that phrase if you don't know what that means ... Would love to find a long-term partner with similar interests ... LIMITS My limits exist purely for medical reasons and failure to comply with then will result in physical injury of a critical nature. Limits are no ff as bottom until after months of connection, nothing longer than 10.5 inches inserted in rectum, no weight applied while hips are bent more than 45 degree no longer than 15 min, no permanent marks or blood, no marks on face hands or neck, no sounding, no photos or videos with face or tattoos or other identifier SIR-boy RELATIONSHIP and considering MASTER-slave I have a lot of energy and focus on giving to others, in a psychological sense. I am a healer, licensed as a psychologist and a massage therapist, focused on healing touch work. It also sexually excites me to be told what to do and held accountable for doing it. I have some unusual fetishes from my rare experience, particularly hypnosis and chemical restraints, like chloro, ether, etc, and have used them together since a teenager. I feel I have much to offer a SIR and hope to find one who appreciates what I could bring to the table. I have also been in BDSM relationships since I was 16, and it is practically all I know. I find myself lost without a SIR right now, almost unable to make decisions at times. I am looking forward to giving everything I can to a new SIR in exchange for his wisdom and teaching. Ultimately looking for a SIR or Master who can use me for my focused attention and training to pleasure himself sexually or physically, who can get inside my head to use my intellect to reinforce the bond of ownership, and who frequently needs and demands service and worship as often as possible. These characteristics are typically found in assertive confident masculine men who get a boner when they tell a sub to do something that clearly has nothing of direct value in it for the sub and may even include some pain or risk for them to do it, yet they do it for you anyway out of sheer adoration of your power and charisma. If you cannot effectively make such a demand nor get a boner from that kind of response from a sub that you find attractive, it's unlikely that we will develop a longer term DOM-sub experience. As a sub, I have a few but essential requirements. There must be a sense of trust that the SIR will take my safety, security, basic needs, physical and mental health into account at all times, and that my limits will be adhered. From this, I expect that I would receive no activity or substance that the SIR would not do himself. I also need a SIR who clearly communicates, makes rules that make sense and are fair, and have a clear contingency, reward (that takes into account my desires and needs) if done and punishment (that takes into account things I don't like) if not done, clear length of time of a rule, and an unwavering ability to deliver rewards and punishments as stated. An effective SIR for me is focused on training as much as servitude. I currently have no desire to be a slave or tool 100% of the time, although I am reconsidering this option. I want to be revered and respected when I do things well. I want my wishes to be requested and heard. And somewhat incorporated as rewards or goals. And in the beginning, this is even that much more important for me, especially when they are incorporated as rewards or goals. I expect that I may be shared with others or whored out to pay for my basic needs. For me to be loaned out to a peer of my SIR is the greatest of flattery I can receive. However, any transfer of ownership to another on a permanent basis or for more than a week will need to be approved by me and if I decide to end my service at that time, that the SIR will allow and help me to leave to go back to independence, if I choose that. |
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Male Submissive, 42, tampa bay, Florida
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