MzTrainer4slaves

Due tro unforseen circumstances there are no further training weekends available till September 2011 and 1 & 2 week courses till January 2012

Mistress Constance

The Outdoor Play Weekend was a resounding success for those that took advantage of the opportunity to camp at the academy over the weekend...The feedback was excellent and most want to return for more.

As a result some have even expressed a desire to repeat the exercise over the Easter weekend so if you are interested in joining us message me

Outdoor Play Weekend this comming weekend...am sooo going to enjoy! all those very private acres, two legged pony's, attentive subs and slaves...what more can a Dominant ask for...chuckles

Woow just read this on  pro Domme profile...its seems an hour of time is worth a lot now days...a reg. doctor ( not talking about plastic surgeons here)spends how many years at uni to earn a similar amount??

"I offer R/T Sessions, prices are between $200-$500 an hour, check out my website for more info.  I also sale clips/videos/pics and do webcam/phone sessions!"

just smiles...Lots

Basically you cannot force someone to be submissive no matter how good a Dominant you are.
Yes it’s our job to lead but not all can be led...yes it’s our job as Dominants to train and teach but not all will allow themselves to be trained ...yes If we are bad at being a Dominant we cannot expect what we want from our subs.

BUT... we too are human and we often tire of having to continually fight the same battles when a submissive demands that we tame them.
Personally I say tame yourself ...then call yourself submissive and DO NOT call yourself a slave until you fully understand what that is... and no its not being locked in a CB2000 or caged 24/7 or flogged whipped , tied up or chained all the time...That is the Fantasy of porn movies. Not the reality of the lifestyle.
Many people ( submissive and Dominant alike) do have an unrealistic vision of what the lifestyle is and that too many people jump into relationships with less care than they take when buying a car. Hence the Velcro collars we see so often!

My advice is that everyone (both Dominant and submissive) have a shopping list of what they MUST have in a relationship and DO NOT compromise...a shopping list what they would Like to have in a relationship that is negotiable for the right person and of course a list of what they WILL NOT accept in a relationship...again no compromise.
And NEVER enter a D/s relationship without an agreement that spells out everyone’s roles responsibilities Limits etc... Yes it’s not a legally binding document but it allows for both parties to see if there are issues arising from deviations from that agreement or perhaps even that the agreement needs re negotiation...Ultimately some relationships will fail...sad but true.
Take responsibility for each and every one of your own lives before expecting someone else to be responsible for or to you.

OK...vent time....

Profiles that say willing to relocate when in fact the person is far from willing.

Profiles that identify as slave and then list what it is they want....yes the Do me list.

Be honest..If you can't won't relocate don't bullshyte

If you are a Do me sub and not slave, call your self a submissive and not slave

being a slave does not mean you are kept 24/7 in chains and have fun stuff done to you...All those poor worn out Dominants who do all the work for your fun...as appealing as it sounds to you ...does not work for me

WARNING: Sydney University and all other institutions using this site or its associated sites for projects - You  have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a compliment but would hasten to add that you really should run stuff by me before putting it in your papers...there is just so much shyte put on this and similar sites and , shock horror, you just can't believe everything you read...lol. ( I suggest the rest of you post this notice)

hehehe...just couldn't resist

In My opinion all submissives offer submission, all submissives accept training and the need for obedience.

What I see some calling submission I call bottoming in BDSM rather than submitting in D/s.

 A bottom is there for self gratification/pleasure. There is no emotional exchange necessary.

A submissive desires to please a Dominant thereby gaining their own pleasure = exchange

A slaves is a submissive that chooses a very deep level of submission that involves giving up most rights and accepting almost total control over all aspects of their lives (this is negotiated prior to collaring and respected once collared)

Both "submissives" and “slaves” should show pride in being owned or they should question why they are doing it. Both should be obedient and want to please their owner.

 Slaves have rights. They have the right not to accept a collar just as a "submissive" does, or to terminate that collar if a Dominant endangers the slaves physical or emotional wellbeing just as a "submissive" can.

I do not believe either a submissive or a slave has to be collared to feel they are what they are so yes they can both choose at that point who they serve or do not serve. 

I often see the phrase "submission is a gift" or “a gift and a privilege. “What I fail to see ever is that accepting that submission is also a gift and that it is a privilege to have that submission accepted...D/s is a two way street.

All submissives should know the difference between obedience and disobedience. To choose disobedience is to choose not to submit and they should rethink who they are. 

Submission can be for a scene, or giving your life over fully to someone else’s control and with many, many levels and variations in between.

 A dominant whether owning someone who identifies as submissive or someone who identifies as slave has a very high degree of responsibility to protect that person’s emotional, physical and financial wellbeing!

Please note these are my own ramblings and I have duplicated them in my everyday profile.If anyone else cares to add them to their profile please do with my express permission as I like having positive ideas shared…smiles

Oh I just had to chuckle at this one I found in a "Masters" profile

"No submissive woman seeks a wussy sissy snag guy. Even femme dommes don't go for this type, they just berate, abuse and walk over them while feeling no real attraction, devotion or love for these types. A female wants to be loved and adored by a male who makes her feel comfortably safe and secure, takes charge, leads by example and has strength- and not just of the physical kind. Otherwise girls proclaim they're bisexual or turn to lesbianism."

Well I agree no submissive woman seeks the wussy sissy guy but am not sure they would not mind a snag..Especially if they are D/s orientated subs and not pain sluts.

As for the crap about what Dommes like or don't like and why we choose to treat subs the way we do...am still laughing.

And fancy believing blokes not being blokey is the reason some women have a preference for being bisexual or lesbian...did this guy come from the dark ages?