MzChristine

"Whosoever sows desire harvests oppression" Muriel Barbery

Dictionary meaning of oppression...

This is BDSM, not "dating". Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism.

It is not pretty. It is sexually charged depravity. It is a world that includes bondage, beatings and cock and ball torture. It is a realm of dark, nasty, dirty deeds. Submission is a position of humble slavery, humiliation and debasing sacrifice. It is not a place for one to bring their pride and dignity. It is not a place for you to be coddled or babied. A submissive needs to put his mind in the right place. Sure, there is closeness, passion and even love. But if that develops, it develops over time. If you are lucky, you find a Dominant that has compassion...but its not a given.

Know who you are, what you are looking for and what you are willing to give in a relationship such as this. Then you may write Me.

Ok, I know I really shouldnt be surprised anymore about what I see on this site...but with that said...WTF!?  LOL  I cant believe how many men that have approached Me as a subbie are now claiming to be Dominant!  I guess if one way doesnt work you switch sides??  *laughing  Now I get it why so many people here are distrusting and fed up. Its funny, O/one gets into this world thinking that O/others are as honest and forthright. I always felt like it was almost like a family. A/all respecting and counting on the O/other. I suppose its different...the community IRL vs online.

Okay, I am sick of people being hateful and nasty just because you dont get the response you want. People that write Me are supposed to be submissive. So act like one! I treat everyone with respect simply because they are people. It is as it should be. It doesnt mean I am not Dominant. It means that I am smart. Y/you simply dont know who is on the other end of your mail. you only get one chance to make a good impression. Just because I dont think W/we would make a good match does not mean that I am attacking you. Behave yourselves boys! you really dont want Me to start putting all that nastiness in My journals for A/all to see!

you know, finding a submissive is just as hard as finding a Dominant. The rules are the same and stupid or cruel people come in all shapes, sizes, sexual orientations and genders. We as Dominants are not immune to insult or rude behavior. My suggestion is this...get over it. you can either cry over loss and hurt emotions...blaming everyone but the guilty party, or you can dust yourself off and get back on the horse. One way will keep your life in exactly the same place that it is. The other will possibly open you up to feel pleasure in service. I am not going to heal your wounds. All I can do is give you a place to heal your own. A submissive is most themselves when in the haven of their Dominant. Bad things happen to everyone.

To assume that I...as a Dominant cannot feel pain or experience a sense of loss is simply ignorant. But I find that as a Dominant, I tend to know how to deal with it easier. Using patience and reason to get through it. I am less likely to wear My heart on My sleeve. I am trained by My personality to be strong, capable and unemotional in times of crisis. It allows Me to do what I do. How can I be any good for you if I cannot control Myself and My circumstances? But dont assume that means I am unfeeling.

I cannot speak for all Dominants...just myself.

My point? Dont write Me shitting all over Me because some Domme has done you wrong. The fact is, you are not alone. Sometimes you get shit on...and sometimes you do the shitting. It is what it is. The sooner you accept that fact, the faster you will find yourself on the road to healing...and the healthier the next relationship will be.