MyTime2058

A Sub controls the early part of, well, lets call it what it should be, a courtship, by choosing who she submits to. If we meet you may think me a little reserved, but that’s because I’m determining boundaries are so I can respect them… a.k.a. deference. The idea of BDSM is to break them (boundaries) down, but that takes time. Unfortunately, even some Subs don’t understand men these days, so they mistake defrence for weakness.

I’m a good cook, have good fashion sense, and I listen when you talk. I’m also a deep thinker, and I actually like talking about relationships. I don’t like rambling on about myself or my work. On the phone, I tend to be the guy you talk to for three hours, not the bore that tells you about how successful he is, or how he wants to fly you to Vegs, or his vacation home for the weekend. I find 40+ year old men commenting on the 20 year old waitresses’ boobs to be boring, crass, and tasteless...that’s some guy’s daughter and besides, I prefer to save my vulgarity and frank references to a woman’s anatomy for a scene, or session with you. That said, I’m also touchy-feely, which means I beat you when we fuck but I’ll also hug you from behind when we’re standing in lines or crowds, brush my hand across the small of your back when I walk by you at home, order for you at a restaurant (not pick out what you want, just order for you), and it also means lots of world class French kissing.