I was in a chat room the other night and the subject came up, "what kinds of submissive are you?"   I had to think about it.   What do i like, where is my submissiveness focused.

I guess i'm geared to more of a service oriented role. It makes me feel good to please my other.  Massages, baths, mani and peddies.  I also enjoy housework and keeping things in their place and organized.

But what about play?
Playing is a plus but not a necessity for me. Don’t get me wrong, i love being bound and flogged until the world melts away into nothingness, but get just as much satisfaction Loving and making my Lady happy.

as far as my sexual submissiveness,  i don’t know..   i enjoy sex, period,  it doesn't have to be rough or bound or drawn out, again it comes down to enjoying making my Lady orgasm and make her feel good and relaxed. 

But in a chat room of labels, slave, bottom, submissive, i still don't know where i lay on that scale. 

I'm just me.