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Female Dominant, 35
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About MyPhantomsLover
Taking a break. I'm not looking for anything right now. |
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"People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges." - Author Unknown |
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"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life. It goes on."
- Robert Frost |
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"The true measure of a person is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good."
-Samuel Johnson
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Going to be gone for a few weeks for the holidays. I will check all mail when I return. Happy Holidays everyone! |
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"There is a wonderful, mystical law of nature that the three things we crave most in life - happiness, freedom, and peace of mind - are always attained by giving them to someone else" - Author Unknown |
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Okay... let's get something straight. If you are looking for a maid, a cook, or someone just to clean up after your lazy ass, look elsewhere! I am not here to be your maid. There is a huge difference between seeking someone to do housework, and seeking someone that does housework. Are you following? Don't seek a maid because you are lazy, seek a slave that wishes to do your bidding, not because you are lazy and won't get off the couch. Be able to do your own laundry, cook your own meals, and clean up after yourself. I am not your mother, nor will I ever be. I will gladly take care of you, but never because you can't take care of yourself. Understand?
This just bothers me "Mommy is not bi, she just wants a clean house". Well I guess "Mommy" needs to get her lazy ass off the couch and clean or hire a maid! My submission is NOT defined by the amount of housework I do. Got that? And you can sit here and say all day... well... If I ask you to do, then you will submit, so it is in fact defined by it. I'm getting so tired of reading about people that need their houses cleaned... come on... seriously... there is alot more to this than that. Call a damned cleaning service for cryin out loud! |
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I honestly don't know what to say... I guess I should have known. There was a reason I didn't want to be with anyone. I just had to take that risk didn't I? We are too different, we both knew that. It still hurts so bad, all of the assholes hurt the most. They know how to get you when you are down. He didn't have to, he could have been decent about it, god forbid even nice. I was. I guess that's just how life goes... I'm tired, cold, lonely, and scared... I need a long nap. |
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I'm not going to be online for a few days... not sure how long this hiatus will last, but we'll see. I'm having a rough time lately and I'm not up for much chat, I'll return all emails as soon as I'm back. |
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"Don't ask yourself what the world needs; ask yourself what makes you come alive, and then go and do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive." -Harold Whitman |
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Thank you to everyone that has written me about my last post. It was all quite helpful. I had an idea of what it was but didn't really understand the dynamics of why submissives would take part in this. I have a clear view of what it is and though I feel strongly about what I think of it I will refrain from posting those thoughts here as my opinions are just that, mine.
Please don't send me any mail asking me to be yours or become part of your family, as I am already taken and happily so. The answer will always be no thank you. |
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Will someone please explain this whole idea of financial domination to me? I can only assume what it is... but why do people do it? |
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It's funny... the times when you least expect something to happen is when it most oftenly does. I honestly wasn't looking for anything serious, I actually turned away from it and ran in the other direction; I didn't want anything at all... not even some maybe's. I wanted to take this time to figure out exactly who and what I am. Now it just so happens that I've got a guide to help me on my journey... an amazing man that I've known for quite a long while. I just wanted to share this information with you all and tell you all good luck in whatever you are/aren't searching for. |
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ok... it seems as though I need to clarify something here. Forwarded letters aren't bad, they just aren't for me. I don't understand why someone expects me to take the time and respond when he/she never took the time to really email me. I guess it seems like you are sending out your resume or something. My profile is clear in saying that I'm not looking for anything serious, so I assume that if they send me this, they didn't really read my profile at all. That and I just like creativity. I apologize if I offended anyone. |
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Wow... I have gotten such an amazing response from ya'll offering any help in answering any questions I might ever have. Thank you so much! I honestly didn't think I'd receive such a response. I assumed the fakes would email me their forwarded letters that they send to everyone, but had no idea that there were so many great people here. Thanks for being so welcoming (for the most part)! |
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