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Female Submissive, 36, South of St Louis, Illinois
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Male Dominant, 48, Memphis, Tennessee
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About MyPatron
First of all, Thank you for taking an interest in my profile.
My curiosity about the D/s lifestyle has brought me to this site. I had a great introductory experience 5 years ago with a caring Dom mentor, which rewired my brain to always seek out this kind of dynamic. I feel that no matter how emotionally involved I get in a vanilla relationship, a part of me remains suppressed, unsatisfied and unchallenged. I am looking for the missing piece of the puzzle.
This stage in my life is all about establishing myself as an independent woman and exploring every desire and curiosity that I have no matter how dark it is. I seek to gain knowledge and mentorship pertaining to the D/s dynamic. I am here to meet like minded people, make friends and explore the possibilities.
Who I am looking for: Dominant Men, Daddy Doms, submissive women, and switch women.
I offer you my friendship, honesty, humor, deep conversation, and my genuine self to those who express interest in me.
At present time, I am not looking for a serious relationship as I have only recently became single. Anything lighthearted is welcomed.
Read on if you would like to know more....
My Background: Born in Eastern Europe then moved to Canada at a young age where I lived for 7 years. Since 2006, I have been living in Oklahoma and learning to love and enjoy the different things it has to offer. I love to travel, explore different places and cultures. Music is one of my greatest passions - anything that makes me want to move or changes my mood, is a powerful thing. Knowledge is also a powerful tool, something I seek constantly. Education is a huge aspect of my life, and i would like to find someone who is on the same level. Dinner and wine are a great way to get to know me for the first time. The movies I enjoy usually involve sci-fi elements, mind-benders, space/time travel and water.
I have a good understanding of what a D/s relationship should involve. By nature, I am very submissive, but have not gotten the chance to explore that with someone who can dominate me not just physically, but mentally and emotionally. The beauty of D/s in creating desire within one another which then fuels a strong connection. My interest in D/s extends beyond the kink; it is oriented in the exploration of the power-balance roles between two people. Once you have intrigued me as a Dom, it will be my duty to ensure your happiness and fulfillment. To me, D/s is not just about a role-play of 'scenes' or situations. It is a complete fulfillment and balance of one another's needs.
In serious vanilla relationships, I found myself going out of my way to to please my partner, with a wide range of things, and their satisfaction brought me great joy and purpose . However, I often felt unappreciated and always had needs that extended beyond the 'regular' relationship. At this point, I decided to be true to myself and seek something different that will complement my personality and lifestyle.
When messaging me, Please Attach a Photo of yourself, it's only fair since I have shared mine. Kind words can take you a long way. If you're curious to learn more, shoot me a message. I am an open book and do not hold much information back.
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Shibari bondage:
Rope Master:
My recent experiences of two Shibari rope sessions have opened my eyes to many things Shibari has to offer. Being tightly bound by loops of rope gave me a sense of security. It felt like being held by a person, as if it were an extension of their touch. The feeling of freedom while being bound and unable to move took me by complete surprise. The freedom came from the surrender and acceptance of the limits placed on my body. This was easily acheived while being in the safe and trusting care of Sir. I knew that whatever plan He had for me, it involved pleasure and exploration of pain tolerance in order to give me a full sensory experience and reach me deep within. The true goal was to create a state of bliss that results from the overload of physical, mental and emotional stimuli that was imposed on me with great care. The temporary pain which was a part of the play sessions allowed me to release anxiety and feelings of hurt that I have been experiencing for so long. It was a great outlet for negative energy to leave my body, and allow me to feel new and pure again. This aspect of detachment from personal pain was a key part in reaching a blissful state of mind at the end of the sessions. Feeling the infliction of pain overwhelm my senses and experiencing it fade away, leaving behind a warmth, made me feel stronger. It gave me confidence that I could handle anything by simply accepting it and letting it pass through me.
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Thoughts on True Doms:
A true DOM should not take advantage of the weak . He should instead be a person who will challenge a strong woman. It is too often that I see men who want to isolate a woman who feels weak,alone and helpless. They want to be the only person that woman will rely on for strength, they do not want to empower the woman they are with. The type of man that is worthy of my submission will be someone who makes me feel confident, strong and beautiful. He will games my full respect and admiration and because of this I will honor him and do whatever it takes to make him happy.
True emotional and mental control results from creating desire in the other person. To create desire in me a man has to earn my respect and admiration. For me to submit to a man, I have to know that he has my best interest in mind. |
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