Mynatt

“Throw a sub to the floor, and yes she will stay there for a while, but she will never go to the floor willingly, with love and obedience for her Dom.”

Being a Dominant has nothing in common with being domineering, in fact one is a contradiction of the other. Anyone can intimidate people with their gruff manners and abruptness, this is not Dominance. Creating in someone the desire to obey requires a subtle seduction, it can be achieved by being both confident in yourself and elegant in your manner.

A Dominant remembers that submission is a gift. To misuse this gift is abusive. When the submissive is not free to take back the gift it is no longer a gift.

A Dominant accepts responsibility for all his actions, everyone makes mistakes. Accept and admit the fact that you messed up, then do what is needed to make amends, and correct it. To seek an excuse for something going wrong or hurting someone will cause you to lose respect.

A Dominant watches over and protects all submissives. To ensure the submissive knows what the submissive's rights are. To insure the submissive knows what being abusive is, and knows when to call it quits.