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My name is Jeff first and foremost. I'm above all else someone that enjoys a good laugh and good time more than anything. I'm a total work a holic, which is precisely what's brought me to this site. I've gotten much better about delegating my time towards things aside from work, and hopefully it'll only get better. I stay extremely busy and truth be told, don't have time for games or bs. As much as I enjoy laughing and having a good time, I take the people I bring into my life very seriously...it's only respectful to do so :)
Needless to say, my schedule is busy. I am primarily what you would call a philanthropist. I own my own company under which I have numerous businesses, and am a heavy investor in both publicly and privately owned businesses, both growing and established. Between that I teach at a college and am VERY involved with cancer research and the development of treatments to help people beat this horrible condition...what can I say, I'm passionate about it lol. I have my professional life in order; it's my personal relationship life that needs work hehe, which brings me here. I travel A LOT, often across the US for business... and for pleasure, I like traveling abroad...Switzerland anyone?
I am very open to friendship from all aspects of the lifestyle. Never too late to expand a circle of friends, but I am looking for a long term relationship. I have found a great deal of solace in my life and am ready to bring someone in with whom I can share that. More on that later though.
I'm definitely what you'd call an old soul, always having made friends with an older crowd, and naturally dating within an age group well outside of my own. I grew up in a very traditional 1950s style household and most of my friends are active in the lifestyle, so finding my way into this was really not much of a choice. It's not so much a role I play, it's simply who I am.
I adore anything that can make me laugh...whether it's campy and slapstick (hello Russell Peters, South Park, and Kevin Hart), or something more satirical, and despite being very what people would call, "white collar." I enjoy fine dining, art, and good music, but at the same time, I love nothing more than working with my hands. I like taking apart and building things, from cars, to wood workings, to electronics. I'm a huge sports fanatic, and a bit of a health nut lol. I work out and exercise regularly, but don't necessarily expect the same in a partner. It's a personal choice for me.
I like to think of myself as a man of contrasts by all means. I can enjoy a black tie dinner and the symphony just as much as sitting around in my underwear eating cheap takeout and watching reruns of Married with Children! At the same time, I love sporting events, going out and enjoying myself, but I've sort of grown out of the club and bar scene. Still, I suppose the occasional trip isn't out of the question.
Give me steak and potatoes over vegetables (even though I love vegetables hehe), give me anything that provides me with an adrenaline rush, and if you can throw in some cake, a brownie, or anything that's baked and comes out of the oven....that's all it takes! The fastest way to my heart is through my stomach hehe.
Something to put into perspective where your place is in the universe....trust me, you're not that small :)
4 bucks a box for girl scout cookies...sounds like a really good deal. I could have sworn they were more expensive last year.
Ah well...I've always had a soft spot for fundraising, having been a kid that did a lot of it in grade school and all...good times. Needless to say, watching her in her wagon with a delicious array of cookies..was hard to say no...so I didn't...I bought every box she had.
57 boxes later....I'm kind of stuck with a dilemma....anyone want a cookie?
Happy Thanksgiving!!
People are capable of doing absolutely anything that they want...I guess the message in the following video is that you simply have to want it bad enough.
I don't care what anyone says, a Honduran, smooth in its finish and taste as it may be, is no match for a Cuban...when it comes to cigars, they have it down to a fine art.
Though I will always have an affinity towards some shisha :)
There aren't a lot of things I find myself of which I feel I'm an aficionado...but watches are definitely in that select few.
The prize of my collection which will be, one day, the Jaeger Duometre-a-Spherotourbillon *swoons for a moment*
But for the time being, I'm still treating myself and did so today with the sexiest watch I've bought to date..the Breitling Bentley Mark VI...there isn't anything that isn't orgasmic about the watch and the amber bronze face...is the climax at the end!
:D Hope everyone's had a good weekend!
So Whitney Houston has died....shame. So much talent gone to so much waste.
I realized today for the first time, that my parents, love them to death, are really, really middle eastern.
They were over for dinner and we started discussing black Friday deals. I looked at my sisters who were quiet and asked them what they got.
Apparently when they asked my dad to take them black Friday shopping because of the savings, his response was, "Why save 40% when you can save 100% if you don't go?"
.....is this my future?
class="indented">Quote from Clerks II
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class="indented">Sexy Stud: So, where're we doin this thing?
Randal Graves: Oh, right inside the restaurant.
Sexy Stud: You're kidding.
Randal Graves: Not spacious enough?
Sexy Stud: No, its plenty spacious, just kinda weird, isnt it?
Randal Graves: Kinda weird? You're in the bestiality business, dude.
Sexy Stud: Hey, Fucko, we like to call it inter-species erotica.
Randal Graves: Intriguing.
How does dialogue and script mastery like that not win an Oscar?!?! BRILLIANT! HAHAHA
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Dominant Nature v. Dominant Role
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(personal thoughts and musings)
There's a huge difference between playing the role of being dominant (i.e. barking out orders, being excessively loud, pushing out your chest and stomping around as if you're missing a ballsack) and just being, dominant by nature. The thing is...for me there was never really a choice.
I grew up in a household where, being male meant you had to be dominant. My father was always the man that led the household. He brought home the bread and butter, and mom made it. This was a dynamic that worked in absolute harmony. She would serve him first, then me, and then my sisters and finally herself, yet my father and I wouldn't eat until mom had her first bite. There was this..mutual exchange of respect.
I can honestly say I don't ever remember having to make my own plate, hell matter of fact, I still don't when I go to my parent's home for dinner.
Growing up though, that's simply what men were. Men are dominant, men don't cry, men don't show any fear or lack of strength, even if it's here. We're human after all, but the resolve of strength, the foundation that held the household up, that bound the honor of family together must never, ever falter. This is what my father used to tell me.
Not that I have anything against anyone's personal choices, but the concept of being submissive is just....not right to me. I can't put on a mask and call myself that, it's too out of place, too...not me if that makes any sense. To everyone, the luxury of being human is you can choose to life your life the way you want to and no one will say anything about it.
For me though...it's not a choice, it never has been. I like it that way. There's no wavering of identities, no confusion....just simply a primal desire to accept what is.
You don't have to be a hardass with a frown everyday to make yourself feel more dominant. Hell I cannot see how anyone could live their life not laughing, smiling, having a good time. You don't have to beg everyone to call you LordMasterGodAlmightySirHungLikeADonkey to feel dominant.
And if anything else...just eat a cookie. Cookies always make everything better....mmm...cookies.
I have found 10 amazing reasons as to why I think I should grow a bigger, fuller, thicker beard.
Yes...it is done, I shall grow a beard. A bigger beard. A bigger, thicker, fuller beard. It will be a big, thick, full beard, and it will be mine. It will be my big, thick, full beard.
