okay - my last journal entry seemed to have gone over rather well .. I now email/chat with several fantastic

people that are polite, respectful, and are real and seem to have the same frustrations I have with regard to this site ..

and as expected - the real people sent messages agreeing and talking about their own frustrations while the poser/wannabes sent rather nasty messages ..

but I wanted to reiterate:
the SUBMISSIVE is in control of the relationship .. she can turn and walk away when ever she wants ..
and males - is your cock really your best feature?  there are only two things I see with those cock pics - either its all wrinkled (which really makes me want to find an iron and I hate ironing to begin with) or its tilted to one side .. but either way - they all look alike after a while ..

and I wish there were more categories on this site: .. like for gays, trannies, married, etc. so they dont message me .. and I'd love to list an age requirement .. its pitiful when these 18 year old wannabes calling themselves master tell me that they want to own me .. I wonder if their mothers know they are on the computer?  Look at my age - 47 .. in all honesty I have a crop older than them .. I finished changing diapers on my kids a long time ago and I'm not starting it all over again .. and why would I want someone who lives across the country anyhow?

and here we go again with the height/weight proportional .. well .. where does the size of a heart fit into that proportion?  most of us older females have a few extra pounds to love because we have brought children into the world - that soft curve you can hold on to is our badge of honor .. and as for the sagging breasts - they sag because we got pregnant and gravity sucks as you get older .. the best I can do is order a crane and try to lift them up into a miracle bra .. hmmm.. maybe my extra pounds is where I keep all the wit, humor, intelligence, compassion, maturity ....

and oh my god - all these black supposed doms looking for white slaves - now listen little boys - IAM NOT NOR WILL I EVER be a slave especially to you .. I am not property .. and if you insistent upon sending me pics of your supposed large cocks when I never even contacted you or cared to - please enlarge the picture first - I need new targets for range practice .. and having multiple accounts when I block them is absolutely childish - your ignorance is appalling that you dont even take the time to read a profile - but then again - maybe you cant read above a third grade level .. point proven ..

I left collarme but I came back to speak my mind .. I read through all these "true master" profiles - each one a bigger joke .. give me an honest Dominant any day ..

You males think that you can list all these requirements for a submissive - rolls my eyes - try cleaning yourselves up before you post a picture .. you want a skinny young submissive yet you look like an ancient version of jabba the hutt .. you want someone height/weight porportional - well are you sure you only weigh 200 pounds - looks more like 280 pounds to me .. you want someone to tend to your every need - no respectable submissive is going to jump in bed with you on the first meet and unless her needs are met - yours are not going to be either (psst - we all know the submissive dictates the relationship) .. you want to seduce a submissive's mind - learning how to spell first would be an accomplishment for most of you .. you want to  win her heart - try having one yourself and showing it ..

quit beating your chest saying: me Dominant - you sub .. if you have to keep saying it - well who are you really trying to convince?  I'd give ten dollars to watch your face when your mother yells your full name at you when you've done something wrong ..

and as for married Dominants - how can you be dominant when you can't even dominate your own marriage?  seems you have absolutely no issues with cheating on your wife but you expect a submissive to put her complete trust in you?  why dont you try putting some effort back into your marriage instead of playing online?  or perhaps you should just do the right thing - the kids will be happier ..

and all these pictures and descriptions of your cock - is that the main and only thing you are proud of?  first off start by using a real ruler - those 8 inches are really only 6 inches - obviously you are using the companion ruler to the companion scale for your weight .. and in reality - they all start to look alike - wrinkled extra flesh ..

in the D/s lifestyle - the Dominant is a teacher, a mentor, a guide .
. sex is a perk - not a necessity .. it's the players and wannabes out there that have made so many leave the lifestyle in disgust .. submissives are not free porn and free sex at your beck and call .. and just because you call yourself a Dominant/Master does not make you one ..  and I'm definitely not going to address you as Sir or Master because you stomp your foot like a child and say that I have to - demand it of me and I'll just call you "dickwad" ..

the sad part is that it will be the people that I speak out against that will scream the loudest .. they will accuse me of being angry, unwanted, non-submissive - all to take away the attention that I've drawn to them ..

.. being submissive does not make me submissive to you ..