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PROPERTY OF SXYIRISH86
as of 10 NOV 2012
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Still here for friends, but I am owned folks, sorry. :)
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I never know what people want to know about me..
The last thing I want to do is hurt you, but trust me, its still on the list.
I am not into submissive men.. wimpy men are my biggest turn off.
With that being said, don't get intimidated and not message me.. that's just sad.
Alot of people are on here for random kink hook ups. I am not.
I like the idea of serving a Master, and I love the idea of being a Mistress..
But at the same time, the Dom has to be man (or woman) enough to realize when he demands too much from someone.
There is a fine line between being a dom and being a controlling asshole. If you understand what I mean when I say this, feel free to contact me.
I tend to be submissive with men and dominant with women, but sometimes it's just good to share the power and ravage each other equally.
I guess Ive been into the lifestyle for awhile without even knowing it was a lifestyle, I've always loved tying people up, or depriving them of their senses..
Im not going to lie, I am pretty picky when it comes to someone I would be intimate with.. I typically go for curvier women and men with a stronger body build.. I would feel weird being intimate with someone who is stick thin (been there, not enjoyable for me)... And because I AM looking for someone I can eventually 'take home to mom' I'd really like it if you weren't old enough to date her... or be her father...
I would love to settle down and have a family and still have my darker side someday.. I want someone who can appreciate my personality. Its harder to find than you might think.
I'm a dreamer. I'm analytical. I'm brutally honest. When I'm not lost in my head, trying to figure out the human psyche; I love music, movies, books, theatre, photography, social media, gaming... not to mention having political and religious debates..
I want to travel to another planet and watch two moons rise and set on the horizon..
I'm adventurous and I'm one of the biggest chickens you will ever meet.
Explain that. I can't.
I know I am sorta rambling a bit, but I feel like, this way, you will all get a chance to see what I'm like.
I'm tired of the cookie cutter profile
"I love anal, hard limit, what's that? teehee."
Get to know me, then if I decide you're worth my time, we can go from there.
I'm done with games. As many times as I have let myself fall in love, I never learn my lesson.
Im sorry if you are not pleased with what I have to say, but like I said, no games here.
If you're going to be real about it, contact me.
I will tell you all now, I am not interested in moving, I am not interested in being your dirty lil secret, nor am I interested in being the third wheel to spice up a relationship.
Now, decide. Do you want to talk to me or not? |
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Christian Grey is most women's ideal Dom. Women always want the possibility of something more. Nobody wants to be forgotten, unloved, etc.
So guys, stop being pig headed and pick up this book. It might teach you a thing or two about what we're actually looking for.. |
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Blergh. I haven't been on this site a whole lot, but I've been back recently and I've noticed a trend in all my messages..
All of my messages are from men who are ridiculously older than me.
I'm 27 guys, too young for anyone over 40.. and I don't have any daddy issues, so please, if that's your thing, pass me up..
And I hate to be that asshole who has to discriminate against age.. but truth is.. I would never frak anyone more than 10 years older than me.. and my last few boyfriends have been significantly younger than me.. ranging from 18-23...
I think my age cap at the moment is 37 and under.. considering my parents aren't even 45 yet.
Furthermore:
I'm not here to gold dig, I don't want your money.
I'm not here to cam-sex with you, creep.
I'm not here to join a threesome with you and your partner. I refuse to be the reason your relationship hits rock bottom, let someone else take that on, not me.
If you're a sissy boy, don't message me. I am not turned on by wimpy men. Nor do I enjoy turning wimpy men on..
I think it's hilarious how everyone on this site seems to love anal. I don't love anal. I can barely tolerate it. Plus it's extremely risky, healthwise (I'm talking about anal fissures, infections, etc), and my health comes before your sexual pleasure any day of the week. Don't like what I have to say? Oh well, there's literally a ton of other girls here who claim to love it, go talk to them, please!
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If you send me something like "You need to be spanked." you can get bent. If you don't want to take the time to talk to me like you've got some sense, then don't expect a reply. Got it?
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So, I said my piece. Get pissed, whine, cry, kick, scream or whatever it is that makes you feel like you're a human being.. just don't send it to me.. k thx.
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check out my wishlist of things... http://www.extremerestraints.com/wishlist_public.php?public_id=487503
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I want something real. Is that too much to ask? I know Im not the girl anyone will ever fall in love with, but why do I always get fucked over?
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Waiting for these pictures to post is like being at the optometrist, with your chin in the chin-rest, waiting for them to blow air into your eye... i hate that nazi air-blow test... lol
and i hate waiting for pictures to get approved.. ugh.
anyhow...if ya wanna see my pictures and don't feel like waiting, go to http://www.myspace.com/thejessicacha
i have tons there....
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My old Master that broke my heart just created a CM account.
Life is good.
(Was that sarcasm? You tell me.)
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so someone broke into my apartment last night.. it was a guy, i know, bc my toilet seat was up...
been having a mini panic attack...
nothing seems to be missing, and i'm not hurt or anything... just freaked out. really freaked out.
should i call the cops?
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Sooooo... Ive started working on music again, which is better than nothing... lol
If you wanna hear it, go to my imeem profile... got it on there...
http://www.imeem.com/jessicacha
Also I've pretty much landed a job as a security officer at a local casino in Cross Lanes...
So that's about it for now.. I am so freakin tired... hope you'll enjoy the music... its relaxing and fun to make, so hopefully it'll be the same when you hear it..
Looking forward to hearing from you all!
xoxo
jess
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I would really like to put together a local munch... I personally dont have a slave or a Master at the moment, and I don't know many in the BDSM community in this area...
hit me up if you are interested...
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so i am trying to cope... sucks still. i really did love him. he was my Master, he was my life. And when it was switch time, he was my dirty lil s*ut...
Sigh.
Bedtime. Looking for a second job tomorrow..
xoxo
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putting new pics up... more recent ones... they should be approved soon...
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so I am sure you guys are wondering whats happened to my journal entries and whatnot...
well first, i have moved from Southern California... i was in Oklahoma for a month, then i came back to west virginia, (which is where im originally from... it was easier to come home than to start over from scratch where i didnt know anyone)
so now Im living in south charleston, working at bennigans in the town centre mall in charleston...
i'm gonna try to keep my conspiracy banter to a minimum as well... although seriously... the government and the nwo are terrible and i bet that "swine flu" shit is something they've concocted...
umm what else... oh, so big news as of dec 7th 2008.... i have a Master. never expected that to happen... i met Him online, but not through this site... He was really surprised to even know this site existed...
so maybe if He decides to, i will add Him to my profile, but i wont do that til i have His permission...
anyway... hope you are all doing well... i have a migraine coming on like something fierce, so i think i'm gonna get off here soon...
hope to hear from you all.
xoxo
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Going to Vegas this weekend, so I wont be online til I get back... dont flood me too much! :)
xoxo, j
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