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About mwinks
I am an alpha male in everyday life, strong, assertive, capable, successful. Some might even say aggressive in certain contexts.
However that alpha exterior is what others would see in the public persona. In private I have a compelling need to submit fully and without limit to the woman I am with. I believe the drastic contrast of these two personas can be very erotic. Others could never imagine my deep submission to my partner in private.
Ideally that deep submission to eventually encompass all aspects of life with my partner. I would not want to be a slave requiring micro management, that can be a tedious burden. But I wish to defer to my partner in all matters including domestic and personal affairs.
Being a good companion in other ways is important as well. I am educated, and well read so I can provide intelligent conversation on a wide variety of topics. I can be opinionated, but that is balanced by my desire to always be respectful and defer to my partners authority. I am generally very active and like to travel and explore the world. I am also romantic and affectionate and can ensure the woman I am with always feels loved, protected, and cared for. I would be someone you could be proud to have accompany you for an evening on the town or at a professional gathering.
I do not wish to be dominated, I wish to submit. I will usually be strong enough to stop an activity and certainly have the ability to say no - but my choice is to submit and please my partner so I will obey and submit. My desire to please is the bedrock of my submission, its very important to me. I am happy to be made to do things I would not normally want to do and even things I may not like, but I will do them with energy and enthusiasm so my partner is pleased. I would be happy to be led to anything taboo that pleased my partner.
The only kink that I truly need like oxygen is body worship generally and oral servitude in particular. I say this not to express what I want but rather to highlight the fact that I am very motivated to please. And of course when someone enjoys doing something they tend to put a lot of effort into doing it well. I also enjoy grooming my partner, a very simple thing like washing her hair can be intimate, romantic and erotic all in one.
Of course I have my faults as well, but I expect my partner will mould me into behaviours that will please her.
I am monogamous by nature and have no desire to be with anyone other than my partner. If I were to participate in activities with others it would only be under my partners direction and for her pleasure. |
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