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How exactly does a person introduce themselves via a message like this? I am a student. I think that may be the single most descriptive thing I can say about myself. I know it sounds like a strange word to define yourself by, but it is quite literally who I am. A student is defined as "one who studies something" or "an attentive observer." That is who I am. I study lots of different things. I am a student in the most obvious sense of the word at my college where I am studying Computer Engineering. So, while I am not in the best financial situation at this moment, prototypical poor student, I have absolutely no worries about where I will be financially later in life. I am a student of people. I watch people, observing their actions, learning from their examples. I am a student of myself. I do my best to learn everything I can about who I am, and where I am going. BDSM, DS, whatever you want to call it. It is part of my life; part of who I am. I have around a year of real life experience, and I want more. I want to explore the depths of it and come out the otherside so to speak. That is where you come in. You would be the person to help me explore, whether that is as a friend, a play partner, or a mate. I hope we talk soon.
I am picky about who I will pair up with at any sort of level. First off the basics: a.) I am straight, any relationship beyond a friendship will be with females only. b.) You must be stable; by that I mean no significant active psychological problems. I have been involved a couple relationships where it became an issue, and the hurt involved is something I would rather avoid. Okay, now for the more intresting things. I want to find someone who is similar to me in a lot of ways. I don't want a sub who doesn't have a mind of her own. She has to be smart, independently driven to learn, funny, active... Hmmm... this sounds like almost every other classified I have ever read. Try this instead, I don't want a person who's entire life is BDSM. I know that sounds strange, but we need to have more in common then BDSM for this to work. That could be some common interests; sports, art, theatre, movies, books, philosophy, and much more are all in there for me, or it could just be personalities that match up; you know those friends you have made for no apparent reason where you are so different but it just works. The only way to find out if this is there is to talk and get to know one another. If all you want is BDSM doen't bother I am not interested, even as a play partner. I would never play with someone I don't trust, and I can't trust someone I don't know. Well that really is enough, and tells the truth.
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