i introduce myself as a white divorced professional male living in the warren/watchung area of N.J. i am 6-0, 190, brn hair and eyes and try to stay in decent shape. I enjoy sports, gourmet cooking, and good friends. i must admit that i am somewhat new to the lifestyle, but am eager to learn please and obey. i always try to be respectful, polite, obedient and enjoy pleasing. The idea of servitude and being commanded by another through gifting of one's control is a fascinating concept to me. I have read a great deal about the lifestyle and feel i am ready to explore ownership by another, i just lack the practical experience which i now wish to embrace. i do have a few limits that would need to be discussed initially. the involvment of minors, inclusion of perm. marks/scars, feces, injury, blood/needles, severe pain, and anything that would cause me suspicion or discovery would not be something i would wish to include. i do however, wish to be introduced to many other aspects of a D/s relationship such as restraint, orgasm denial/control, anal, display and use by a Domme. i am serious and have a strong desire but feel it important to find a Domme who can be understanding and patient of a new sub and his introduction to the lifestyle. i wish to undertake this journey with a creative and experienced Mistress and am willing to hold Her hand and be trained in Her image. The need for chemistry is also important to me and do not wish to serve just any Domme. i have had opportunities, but seek one who stands out among the rest and treats Her sub as She would like to be treated Herself. i would welcome the opportunity to discuss the potential opportunity of serving You.