I am a 47 years old, married, Latino Top. I say Top because it is more play style than Lifestyle for me. I have been in the BDSM scene for over 10 years. I am a very sensual Dom when I play. I am a leather craftsman and I have made a great deal of my own gear over the years; I have made many items for my friends, as well. I am a member of my local Munch Group. I am active in the group and can often be found giving classes and demonstrations to the group. I can be found in the scene most often at one of the dungeons in the North Hollywood or Westside area of Los Angeles.
I am into the more sensual forms of play, the more erotic and sensual aspects of female submission. But that does not mean that I am not into other area of play, just that I am not usually playing there. I enjoy all types of sensation play (flogging, cropping and spanking); bondage, be it leather or rope; breast and nipple play (teasing and tormenting); electro stimulation (e-stim for pleasure and teasing); extended foreplay, orgasm control and denial; hot wax play; knife play (non-cutting); sensory deprivation (blindfolds, hoods and masks); sex toys and of course tickling. I am open to trying other things; these are just a few of the things I like most.
What I am looking for is an intelligent and confident woman, to be my play partner. I am seeking a woman who is at least curious about the scene and lifestyle; especially the Bondage and Discipline, and Dominance and submission aspects of the scene. I would prefer a woman at least 24 years old; I would consider someone younger depending on their maturity level.
I would welcome a Switch that wishes to grow and move on to become a Domme, as I would be more than willing and happy to mentor and help them move on in their journey.
What I am not looking for is a painslut or someone who will become dependent on me. I am looking for someone who would like to get together on occasion, for visits to local dungeons and scene friendly clubs; for Munches and/or private parties at private residents; and occasionally, visits to a private dungeons for private play.
I am looking for play partner who I have a connection with in the scene. Perferably a Friend With Benefits, or even a NSA connection, out of the scene. I am married and my wife does know of this side of my life; she was once my play partner, once but is no longer into the scene. To be honest and and fair, I have no intentions of leaving my wife.
