To help separate the truly selfless slaves from the self absorbed dreamers ALL introductory messages MUST start with an Amazon gift card code. ALL others will be ignored and/or deleted. You are not the exception!

Dear Cancer,

    You have made people I care about sick. You make them face life with uncertainty. Making them scared whether they show it or not. The drugs used to fight you, often make them sicker. You don't discriminate young or old, race or religion. Sometimes you taunt them and leave, only to return. Sometimes you hide and fester inside their bodies and don't show up until it's too late. Sometimes you disguise yourself, making doctors believe you may be something else. You have taken away Parents, Grandparents, Children, Siblings, Family, Spouses, Friends. I hate you! You are a killer! FUCK YOU CANCER!

Why the age difference. In my mind I'm still young at heart, and wise in many ways. In general I enjoy the energy and eagerness of a younger man trying to impress and do things to get your attention. At the same time it can be annoying. Older men have the knowledge of life lessons and (it's on an individual basis) if they have learned and are willing to use those tools. Basically a man who has not been shutdown to the point of not wanting to give himself. I'm not talking about the lifestyle, gifts or money. Someone who goes out of their way to make you feel special. Open himself up. Communication. Honesty. Does it exist? Yes there are a few of you rare gems out there, just not sure any are on here.

I don't close the door on one because of age. Every individual should be treated as one.

Countdown to my Jamaica vacation. I am in desperate need of time to relax away from reality and just have fun. Already planning my Costa Rica trip for this upcoming winter. Hopefully an extended trip to explore the jungles and enjoy the wildlife up close and personal.

I am not looking or willing to support ANYONE. I am not looking to take you off the map and hide you from child support or authorities. Take responsibility.

Nothing at this point shocks me. From the simple insults of people in everyday life to unique taboo fetishes.

What is a big disappoint how people in general truly are. Just when you think here's a good decent person. They go and prove you wrong. Is there a man out there does not live to disappoint or have a hidden agenda? So many of you claim to be so sincere. I call BullShit.

Please have a working hard dick and like to fuck.  Be a submissive because it is a choice, not because you have erectile dysfunction or other issues with your penis itself.  I love to play, I also love to a hard deep fuck to keep me satisfied. Looking to find that person with balance.

WOW, another listed Dom male who claims to be a sub, to avoid overwhelming emails. Okay I understand. Less email from Findoms, and such.

Yet you are demanding I call you. Give you a bunch of personal information? Then block me, because I don't call quick enough to your standards or give you all my personal information.  Two words for you buddy FUCK OFF, good luck no wonder you have been here for 7+ yrs and still have a major bucket list to fill.

I am not looking to jump into something sexually with random men. I don't care to only talk about sex. I am looking for a good balance of both worlds. Yes I am looking for something in real life, not this online bs. Although I don't need to explain myself why I proceed with caution in terms of meeting people and giving out my number. Yes I will have friends, it all needs to start somewhere. Some will stay friends on line, some may be friends in real world. Although my goal is to have a LTR, with the right person, not the right now person.

I am who I am fake nope, not me. No one who knows me has ever called me fake.

I just all set with this site and the majority of people. Out of the country people looking took get together really? Fake profiles. Multiple profiles. Rude emails.

Had some nice conversations about different topic (not about sex), with some decent guys. 

I'm looking for chemistry, a connection, honesty, communication. Looking for someone in/out of the lifestyle for a LTR.

Okay we all have some type of baggage (kids are not baggage, they are a blessing). I am willing to help you pack up your baggage or unpack it. Looking to work together as a team.

Why is something so easy, so difficult to find???

I have more responses from out of the country FemDoms saying 3 states? Why do you care? I am not asking for credit card numbers nor to send money and gifts out of the country. Go get a real job. Yes 3 states, I border them all.

LMAO you pathetic excuse of a man. Report my photos. How manly of you.

Okay I'm not a hard person to figure out per say. If you read my profile, that alone will tell you if you think we may be a match. Do we have similar likes and dislikes? What is it your really looking for?

If I don't respond. I don't, get over it. Stop resending the same exact emails. Stop popping up on chat requests. Stop sending your numbers. The delete and block buttons are my new bffs.

It's refreshing to know there are a few individuals out there with common sense. Sad to even have to say that. Someone that can actually read, comprehend, and form a sentence. They can discuss topics other than sex. They can carry on a conversation. Some of you older guys should take a lesson from these guys.

Why oh why would you send me an email from out of the country or 1,000 miles away? Are you coming to visit anytime soon? Moving here? Seriously? Stop before you hit the send button reread what you just wrote and make sure you didn't send me the same email last week or another one.

Please stop with the same cookie cutter response you sent to me (and probably countless others), and then in turn resend the same exact message a few days later and again in another few days. I will not respond.

Any local people going to NELA this coming wkend in Providence?

Attractive professional BBW. Not a pro but have been in/out of lifestyle for over 15 yrs. Looking for a sub/slave, with the possibility of full time houseboy/slave. Prefer ages 26-43. Chemistry is key in/out of the bedroom. I'm not looking to rush into something. I prefer something longterm that is mutual beneficial in both the vanilla world and behind closed doors. Location is important or be willing to relocate.