MsNTune2u

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	About MsNTune2u Does it really matter what I put in this section? From MY experience, it does not as many have contacted ME without reading. Thus, they have no clue to what it is I seek and ask several questions that MY profile already answered. I'm not new to this site. I've been locked out of MY profile due to the E-Mails not coming through, therefore, I am making a new profile as there were a couple of potential subs with whom I had been in conversation. I am a naturally Dominant female who seeks a: sincere, secure, naturally submissive male who is not afraid of, nor threatened by being in the company of Dominant men at events such as munches and/or play parties. He realizes that his commitment is to his Domme and that SHE is the one whom he will serve. He will be service-oriented, pro-active, and straight. He will possess the willingness, freedom, and ability to accompany ME to business functions, on personal outings, as well as life-style events. He will be drug and disease free as I am. He will also demonstrate and maintain open and honest communication. He is one who anticipates the needs/desires/wants of his Domme and works to fulfill them even before it is asked of him. I am an avid spanker so he will either enjoy spanking or be willing to submit to one upon MY whim. Other questions will be answered during communication. I realize that some subs are not cut out for or desiring a ltr. If you have a desire to be a service sub, areas I can use assistance are: keeping car detailed; weekly house-cleaning and/or laundry; checking/responding to business E-Mails; making phone calls; spanking sessions; monthly munches; bondage sessions; service dates such as dinner/movies/plays/shopping, etc. Just know what it is that you have to offer ME and are in need of to fulfill your submissive nature (or at least be willing to learn). I DO NOT TOLERATE or HAVE PATIENCE FOR persons attempting to top from the bottom. I am a lifestyle Dominant so, it is not about what YOU want. You do not get to dictate to ME. Do not attempt to manipulate ME to get what it is you want (rather than earning it through your unwavering devotion).

When it is in you, it is in you. No matter how much it frightens you, you cannot merely walk away. That which you crave, you fear the most. And, you know what???? It is perfectly alright.

Yes, boy. I will take you back. I will forgive you for cumming without permission. I will even forgive you for running. However, you do have dues to pay and lessons to learn,

Your ass, back, arms, etc. may be sore for a very long time as a result. For with every action there is a re-action. For every choice, there is a consequence. These may be good. They may be bad. It depends on the catalyst.

Consider your actions, choices, and lack of voice. You can only imagine what Ma'am has in store for you.

INTERESTING

A new situation has arisen. One longed over the years to fulfill his deep-seated hunger to serve as a submissive with the hopes of becoming a 24/7 monogamous slave to that special one.

Well, he, finally, met someone who helped him out his comfort zone. For 2 months, they talked and interacted as he was under a period of consideration. Proving himself worthy, he was offered a training collar. This was preceded by much discussion and signing of a training contract. Then, he disappeared for about 10 days. He had become frightened and questioned whether this was really for him. No pressure. She was patient (not desperate as too many fakers regularly knock on Her door). He re-opened the lines of communication begging HER pardon, explaining his apprehension and seeking Her counsel. He admitted their conversations always made him feel comfortable as many questions were answered and he gained a better understanding of himself.

Six months later he is learning and becoming a very good slave. Then, it happens. His first experience with the nipple clamps. He always gets excited in Her presence, today was no different. The pain/pleasure from the removal of the clamps after they had been on almost an hour had him on edge along with Her soothing tone. She commands him to hold his pleasure tool and present it to Her. He is to stroke it gently making sure it is totally covered with oil and shining prior to the presentation. He strokes it once, twice. "Squeeze it," She commands. He squeezes and.... What's this?

His body stiffens. he can't hold it in. A white milky substance escapes. He drops to his knees covering his face as he is full of shame. She smiles at him knowingly. But, the shame is too much. He runs, disappearing quickly.

It is 8 days later. he sends Her a text. "I can't be a slave." Another message a couple of days later, "It's not easy" (to just walk away).

Hmmmmmmm

Six months growing and building a relationship where just the sound of HER voice and thought of serving HER turns you on and brings you pleasure. You long for the control. You need the control. You realize you were born to serve. Yet, the thought of having someone else command and control your orgasm, frightens you. How can a Woman have that much control over a man and he still be a man? you ask. [Silly man. Women have been having that huge of an effect over men since the beginning of time. Men have to be trained and work at building stamina and holding their orgasm. They have no control - the 60 second and 2 minute statements are more than a notion and all fueled by the thought that "She finally let me in."]

So, why can't you be a slave? All the other aspects suit you but, you don't like the thought of having another control when/how you cum. You desire a 24/7 monogamous Master/slave relationship with intimacy but, only want to cum on your terms?

Interesting

Next

Lost or Found?

That is the question

Much engagement in conversation has led me to ask this question, are you lost or found?

A valid question it is and very relevant. For many share that they fear losing themselves by yielding their power or control to another. They are afraid that they will no longer exist. They are afraid that they will lose their identity-what makes them who they are.

Yet, these very people are leading unhappy and unfulfilled lives because of their failure to surrender/yield/submit. They not only ‘want’ or ‘desire’ but, ‘need’ to be controlled by another. There are those longing to surrender to that special someone who makes them feel safe. They have a necessity to pleasure others through the rendering of service. A few require micro-managing to help them get their lives on track empowering them to be the best they can be. Others obtain fulfillment by waiting on persons (or a special someone) hand and foot, selflessly. Still others require to be led during acts of sexual enjoyment. The bottom line is that there are many persons, both male and female, who long to live a life of submission. It is in them to their very core. They feel a void in their lives and are not happy because of this unfulfilled yearning. Something deep in their core fosters these desires to serve. They are naturally subservient and are at their best when ‘catering to’ other people.

This denial of self is not explicitly among submissive people. There are dominant people (female and male) reluctant to walk in their truth. There are those called to lead who choose to walk beside or behind for fear they will fall short. There are those called to be served (who enjoy being served, dominating, etc.) who fear they will no longer be accepted as it is not the perceived and/or accepted role in their culture. There are those finding it more and more difficult to suppress the feelings of authority/supremacy/domination that reside at the core of their being. They fear being ridiculed. Others understand the great responsibility thus, they run to avoid acceptance of it. There are several other reasons. So, many are left unhappy, longing for a world where they will be accepted for who they are. Yet, they fear what they may lose if they walk in their truth.

Persons on both sides of the slash long for an opportunity to engage in a relationship beyond scenes or roleplay where they can be themselves whether others are watching or not (This is called ‘INTEGRITY’). Yet, they distress over receiving the very thing they know will make them happy. In the majority of these cases the panic arises out of the fear that they will “gain their fantasy and lose themselves.”

My question is: “Will you be lost or found?” That is, will you be losing yourself or finding yourself? Will you be losing your identity or, at last, finding your identity? Will you be trading your ‘reality’ for a ‘fantasy’ or trading the fantasy you built for acceptance or to fit in the ‘status quo’ for the reality of living life as you were meant to exist?

You see, if dominance or submission is not nearly a “want” or “desire” (something one would like to have but can live without) but, a sincere ‘need’-the very essence of your being- it is your reality. If this is the case, the question then becomes, “would you rather remain lost living a lie, or be found and walk in the integrity of your personhood every day in every way?” The choice is yours. The decision is yours. The answer is your truth. Are you lost or found?

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