MsLissa

NOTE: If what you seek is a security blanket, a 'parent' or are unable to grow past insecurities, chances are pretty good that I won't be what you are seeking. By the same token, if you choose to share intimacies with a variety of people (poly does not mean promiscuous), have difficulty making decisions or commiting to/seeing something through or handling open and sometimes blunt conversations, it is likely that you don't have what I need. If you are looking to date, e harmony is a good place to go for that.

At this time I resume my search for a submissive/slave to join with myself and my treasured phoenix. one to share, explore, laugh and learn in a warm and safe environment. Please know to some extent who you are, have focus to complete goals and a willingness to put a directed energy toward a chosen path. I do not choose the gender, the looks or any other similar issues of the one I seek, only the heart and mind.

I am pleased to say I have a found a delightful one that desires to serve and spoil me. After several months of spending time, talking, tormenting and generally getting comfortable am proud to say he is mine. This weekend he accepted a collar and was pierced for my pleasure. He is a joy, the delight of my life and the one I have chosen to own.

I must wonder what goes through the minds of people at times. Why do those who say they wish to serve a dominant spend weeks or more talking with one, only to either stand them up at a meeting or come up with some excuse for breaking it at the last minute? (The most original was that he was being punished by a vindictive god for being a submissive). What happened to good old fashioned honesty? Why waste both your time and mine?

A question for the masses...Why do so many male dominants assume that all females are either submissive, need their guidance or both? Is it a security issue, the need to strut and feel manly or simply stupidity?  Open to hearing thoughts :)

Contact Etiquette Rule #1 Don't start off an initial contact to someone whose interest you desire with insults such as "you don't look strong enough to dominate me, I don't think you are but pictures could lie" huh? This is supposed to attract my attention??? Trash File!