MsJoy2752


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	About MsJoy2752 Collarspace isnt consistently allowing me to respond to messages, so please forgive the lack of a response. The proper way to address me is Ms Joy. A goal worthy of my attention and effort is to inspire one to be the best one can be. And to make the best of the here and now, i.e., live in the moment because tomorrow isnt guaranteed. Learning excites me, as does a job well done. Discussions limited to bdsm would become boring in short order. NOTE I prefer discussions that involve sharing information, opinions,.... Asking 20 questions isnt sharing.....its an interrogation and I hate interrogations. Friendships are welcomed, as is intelligent conversation. At some point, I would enjoy meeting those I chat with. I embrace who I am and expect those that are with me to do the same, inclusive of my sadistic side. Soft and fuzzy alone wont make me happy. I am active within the bdsm community and expect those serving me to be prepared to join me at events. There is lots to be gained by engaging with others within the community. I also enjoy getting together with them. No strings attached minions are a must. Those that want to serve as minions (and without excuses) must be prepared to do as told such as gardening, heavy lifting, chores, errands, helping me with projects that I am involved with, and so on. Minions will be pleased with whatever I chose to bless them with since service is about making me happy and not about me fulfilling your sexual FemDomme fantansies. I expect to be treated in a suitable manner and as a lady at all times. Preferenceshard limitsI prefer the intimate company of someone more or less my age (single not involvedpartnered, DD free) that is youthful and willing to explore with me. Someone(s) I can share with on all levels, and who has a well rounded personality that meshes with mine. And sharing doesnt mean involving me in your drama.LTRs (including life partner) are worth more to me than a short term friendships, flings. My ultimate goal is to find someone to live our 247365 Ds dynamic with.I have tried long distance relationships and find they dont meet my needs.I want the time to get to know the person and one weekend a month wont fulfill me. The LTR must encompass all interests, vanilla and otherwise. Asense of humor, wit, laughter, patience, confidence, passion, commitment anda willingness to stick with it for the long haul, and a love of life are critical to a viable relationship. Time is precious to me, and those I chose to spend time on and with should understand this. I am not a carnival ride or service top, be it on line or real time. The only times I have been a carnival ride or service top were for worthy causes, however your entertainment doesnt qualify as a worthy cause. Hard limits include no on-line Domination, no children, no animals, no topping from the bottom,and no permanent damage. I cherish what belongs to me so breaking it doesnt serve me. Play for plays sake is not of interest. I have ample opportunities to play with people I know and connect with. Trust is developed over time, so one needs to be prepared to make the investment and commitment to gain it. Creating the environment for honest and open communications is a must worth it in the long run. I may not always be willing or ready to hear what is being said, however with time I will be. I want to greet each day with a love of the person who has dedicated themselves to my happiness and control. Humor is a must, and wit is a bonus. Quotes that Move Me No spring nor summer beauty hath such grace, as I have seen in one autumnal face.....If we love things long sought, age is a thing which we are 50 years in compassing. excerpts from Elegy IX The Autumnal by John Donne Te amo como se aman ciertas cosas oscuras, secretamente, entre la sombra y el alma. Pablo Neruda. Translation I love you as certain dark things are to be loved, in secret, between the shadow and the soul. NOTE Pictured goddess is Mazu. Chinese Sea Goddess (Ma Tsu - mother). Goddess of Compassion. She is revered for her Courage and willingness to fight for her principles. She is very similar to Kwan Yin.

The weather out here is fabulous, sunny every day, and only too hot in the late spring and throughout the summer. ?Thank goodness for pools and air conditioning. ?Loving being in warmer climates.

I no longer live in the northeast. I have relocated to a warmer climate. Yippee

I know you think you are special, an exception to the rule, and I get that. The rest of us might not agree, so please don't disregard what we state are our preferences, hard limits, etc.

Consent is a mutual agreement between involved parties to engage in a specified activity; for the purposes of this article, consent refers to sexual consent, but consent is relevant in all ects of interpersonal interactions. Consent must be freely given, reversible, informed, enthusiastic, and specific. A coerced “yes” does not count as consent and consent for one activity does not imply consent for other activities. Furthermore, consent is only valid when the involved parties are on the same page about what they are consenting to. There are endless ways to ascertain consent and while it may feel awkward at first, dealing with a little bit of awkwardness is far preferable to violating someone’s boundaries.

This is a definition I found on the internet and it coincides with what the NCSF states. However, some people in the bdsm community are extending its meaning to conversations in which someone was offended by what was said once. In my opinion, taking it to this extreme is absurd and unreasonable. People make mistakes, put their feet in their mouths from time to time, and to crucify them by claiming a consent violation occured is beyond the realm of reason.

Update on my age, I am 70 years of age in case you are wondering.

I try to be polite when responding to messages received. Pet peeve: what makes one think they can ask 20 questions of total strangers? i generally delete one liners, silly nonsensical messages, and messages from Strangers asking too many or inappropriate questions.

You might do better if you attempt to start a conversation based on some said in their profile,journal or ina chat group.

Remember to live life in the moment, you never know if you will be here tomorrow.

Transformation

Transformation and growth take time, careful planning, and work. Healing is also important to my process, and allowing myself to feel things fully is key. I will take the time I need to feel, to heal, to re-assess , renew, and in doing so, find the clarity I need.

In being open to what others have to say I will find benefit in my own life, as well.

Living in Darkness

"In the short run, there are two types of people who live in darkness: those who are desperate to emerge and those who are desperate to stay.

When you finally realize that part of the reason you chose this lifetime was to shine your light for the first type, you'll stop worrying about what the second type thinks of you."

Put yourself first and make sure you get what you deserve. Never let anyone tear you down, disrespect you, or disregard your limits. People, who value others, won't do that to you unless explicit permission to engage each other that way was given.

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