MrMotivator

My background is as a former lecturer (in Ancient History) and now a University senior administrator. I am very well travelled - through Borneo and Malaysia; Russia, Ukraine and Georgia and, more recently, West Africa (specifically Cameroon).

I have been active as a dominant for more than fifteen years (since my early 20s). My strengths are (out of role) a sensible and open-minded outlook, the ability to provide intellectual stimulation and easy-going friendship; (in role) I seek to create a demanding and rigorous domination experience, combined with an acute sensitivity to my sub's needs at any given moment. A particular feature of my sessions is my desire to bring the full range of my rather unusual set of life experiences to bear to create unusual and memorable scenes (whether that be re-enacting slavery in Ancient Rome, the horrors of Soviet Russia or simply adding to my collection of African whips and canes).

I am looking for a genuine submissive woman who feels that they have something special they can add to my life. I see myself as a rounded person - someone who has accepted that BDSM is an important part of my life but for whom it is not the whole of my life - I would be looking for someone who shares that perspective. I am not therefore looking for a 24/7 relationship. Although any meaningful bdsm relationship (and I am looking for a meaningful relationship) involves a high degree of emotional and physical commitment respondents should be aware that I have a vanilla partner whom I am committed to.

My particular interests revolve around spanking and c.p. but very much conditioned by roleplay and with a range of optional extras including bondage, gagging etc. I am also especially keen to hear from submissives from non-Caucasian backgrounds, especially African I suppose. Generally, however, I am happy to hear from any genuine female sub - regardless of experience, ethnicity, age or body shape; and whether for chat or for more.

I can be contacted on mr__motivator at hotmail.com

Some of my work is also viewable at the website above; or at my yahoo group http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AfricanSpanking/