BDSM is one of those areas where an age gap can be beneficial, so your age (and race) doesn’t worry me, though I prefer Asian girls. I prefer someone who is a – S..exually L..iberated U..nique T..ri-sexual

From my dating profile: I have been to the Philippines a few times in search of a wife.

I can understand scammers lying because they are only in it for the short term, but if someone is applying for a visa for a long term relationship, lying will not build respect. It does make it difficult for those that contact me now, because I will be a lot more demanding of information. I will try to make it very clear who my perfect match is, so there is no misunderstanding, and you don’t have to waste your time contacting me. I apologise to those who are unintentionally offended by my profile but I am trying to find someone genuinely the same, so that we remain happily married. It does not matter if you are not from the Philippines.

1. Minimum age - late 20’s. I have tried with someone who was 20 and positive that an age gap was not an issue, but eventually it was. I have had a lot more time to learn and you can’t put a wise head on young shoulders.

2. Slim with height from about 4 ft 11 inches to 5 ft 5 inches. (150 cm to 165 cm). I am 68 Kg and 5 ft 8 inches. (172 cm). That allows for you to wear high heels.

3. Starsign - I prefer Aquarian, Gemini or Libra (like me) as we will have similar personalities, and probably the only ones with any chance of understanding my profile requirements.

4. Not too religious - Australia is the newest country and people realised that God was an invention before religious brain washing was achieved. Santa Claus was invented to control kids “If you are bad Santa won’t bring you presents”. God was invented to control adults and superstitious people. That doesn’t mean you can’t live a religious lifestyle and have a belief in your future and kindness to others. Just take the guilt out of your life. I can also understand how, for many people, religion is the only hope in an otherwise hopeless situation. Most Catholic Church attendees here are Filipinos.

5. Sexy and sexually liberated rather than conservative. Someone who would love to live an exhibitionist and Hotwife lifestyle (Please Google it). This can only work in a strong long term happy, loving and honest relationship. I am not a jealous person and it is easier to practice here, rather than in Asia. There are a lot of things here that are the complete opposite of some Asian countries.

6. I have had a vasectomy so I can’t have any kids but of course you can become pregnant if you wish to. Refer to Hotwife lifestyle. If you already have a kid and she is a young girl, it would be okay as I always wanted a daughter. If she is a teenager you might have big problems relocating her away from her friends.

7. Someone who loves maths. Not many females like it I know, but I am moving from the building industry back into online share trading, so I can work anywhere with an internet connection, in a couple of years’ time. If you like or are interested in programming and computers (excluding loving Facebook) it would be helpful, so that you aren’t bored. It means you will eventually be self-employed, day trading as well. It is very profitable, but a really boring job and conversation, if you aren’t interested in it.

8. Willing to relocate to Australia and available to become married. If you have been married in the Philippines you are still married, even if separated. I have been to Cebu a few times, and via Manila. Please be close to Cebu City, Manila or near another countries capitol city, so I can find you easily. I can’t visit Mindanao, as it is black listed by the Australian Government and Travel Insurance companies. I would also love to travel more with someone by my side in the future.

9. Financially independent. You are going to have to support yourself whilst I save up for another visa application, and the travel and hotel costs associated with it.

10. Available to chat on Skype with a camera and chat on a message service.